cool, you realize there are a lot of therapists that have completely different methods right?
and many of them suck at their job, regardless of method.
also the fact you think everyone is totally unique, makes me entirely question your validity of a therapist. most people are not especially unique in their problems or circumstances. though often they are convinced they are, especially if they aren't in a support group or social isolated.
not everyone wants to live in an echo chamber. but we also don't want to be blasted in the face with crazy people who tell us to kill ourselves because we own a car.
YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND HE HAD TO MURDER MILLIONS SO THAT 10s OF MILLIONS COULD BE MISERABLE AND LIVE IN A CORRUPT OLIGARCHY REGIME, WHERE THE QUALITY OF LIFE WAS DECADES BEHIND THE WEST.
and don't forget how glorious and prefect and FREE life is in China and North Korea.
There are a few instances where like 90% of the problematic content and users come from. Blocking them makes the fediverse FAR more enjoyable and pleasant. And reduces the harassment and violent content by 90%
Sane leftists need to shut out the insane ones. Those folks dont' care about politics in any actionable way. All they care about is feeling superior to everyone else based on their theoretical beliefs and their weird cult of worship they have created with facts don't matter and alternative history is the truth.
I'm currently debating with myself whether to block sh.itjust.works next, because it seems to be becoming another hotbed of bad actors who are here to be purely negative and hostile to other users and push extremist content, and if you counter point them they just harass the shit out of you and follow you around across various communities.
in fact a lot of folks i blocked on other instances are now posting from that instance under the same username. seems like some folks just keep swapping instances once enough folks have blocked them on another instance for their harassment and horrible posts.
emotional intelligence is another of those buzzworks that were popularized by management speak. It literally was a Harvard Business review thing, they took form some psychologist books because they wanted a metric to evaluate managers for the ability to motivate employees. and this was the 'new' metric they came up.
and now like everyone says it all the time like they are an expert on what it is, but they could not define if they are asked. it's yet another bullshit term people use to abuse one another and glorify themselves.
it's so dumb and mostly used by folks who want to blame others for their own lack of emotional intelligence, a sophisticated 'no but u'.
they aren't though, they are just asking you leading questions and giving you a ton of runway
and they have a shitload of experience dealing with people who are just like you, so your story to them is probably not unique or weird, but rather cliche and boring.
that's what happens when you date a 6 year old. you can't talk to them like they are an adult.
she was just immature dude. emotional intelligence is a nonsense phrase and has nothing to do with someone's inability or inattention to cooking and cleaning. my mother cooked and cleaned fastidiously, but was still a stupid person, emotionally and otherwise.
you just dated a spoiled little child who refused to grow up. don't turn it into their 'lack of emotional intelligence' nonsense.
further, it could be you were just incompatible in terms of lifestyle. people have different levels of cleanliness and other personal habits and yours are not necessary superior just because your standards are higher. personally i can't imagine getting upset at someone leaving out a cooking pan and there is a huge difference between that, and like 10 of them, but for some folks, 1 is the same as 10 in terms of emotional impact.
so no matter what it is, it's still your fault for not making her comfortable, got it.
reminds of the time my ex broke up with me because I said I wasn't going to pay off her 150K in debt, and she said that meant I didn't lover and it upset her very much. Clearly my lack of emotional intelligence there, though it was a financially intelligent move.
your employer isn't interested in truth and justice, they are interested in avoiding bad PR.
the same reason that anyone who gets a false charges basically has their life ruined, nobody wants to associate with the association of crime, even if you are proven innocent, the fact you were charged at all makes you guilty in the court of public opinion. and pushing back, just makes you look more guilty.
cool, you realize there are a lot of therapists that have completely different methods right?
and many of them suck at their job, regardless of method.
also the fact you think everyone is totally unique, makes me entirely question your validity of a therapist. most people are not especially unique in their problems or circumstances. though often they are convinced they are, especially if they aren't in a support group or social isolated.