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Just another weird millennial

Please no romancing

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  • Yeah, visibility/exposure carries risks. But it also provides protection.

    I decided not to care. It's a risk I'm willing to take, and whatever may come, I won't regret it.

    All I wanted to do was make people feel some fun and giggles.

    To keep people down, they literally have algorithms to make people miserable and hateful. So in a way, you can become a target, and I'm not even joking. Also, people just wanting to kill light, I guess.

    If you decide to keep this account, I'd suggest not deleting it in the event that something should happen, and then document everything. There's more motivation for a crime in darkness than one in broad daylight.

    I'm sorry if this is a bit rough to read. I don't think anything will happen, and certainly hope so. But I thought I'd share some basic security I believe in, for the rather open way in which you engage with this platform, to maybe make you feel safer.

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  • Saw a thread about putting together your favorite food and a diagnosis to make up a name. So I used that when asked for a username, but miss-typed 'taco'. At the time I thought I was cis, so it's kinda nice to have a more nb fitting username carry over.

  • In the name of the hiss, the scratch, and the holy meow, I hereby assign you a cat at birth, postnatally.

    Ooooooooom

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    It's done. You're ACAB now.

  • Looks like we effectively agree.

    I think if we to improve the state of NSFW content we also need to be very specific in our wording of the criticism because how criticism is worded can change the context and as we agree, context matters.

    Agreed! I think Multiverse made quite the effort and did a decent job. Misunderstandings and mistakes still happen, which is why just talking like this to get to our goal can be useful :)

    And I think you also blurred that line with the fiction story example.

    Thanks for the feedback. Reading it again now, I wouldn't know how to express it differently. But I can see how this might not be clear to people not living in my head. Useful to know.

  • aye. same.

  • Maybe. But for anyone reading who might be changing their minds. I'm not trying to step on anyone's toes and guilt trip them or put them down.

    Because right now, we can look forward to how good fedinsfw can actually be. It just seems like the fediverse has a beautiful opportunity to re-imagine internet pornography. And it's realising this opportunity that I am arguing for.

  • If somebody posts a swastika, and uses it to critically talk about the nazi history, or the fertility symbol aspect of it, it's not the same as if you're posting it without comment in the context of a debate about racism, or in a PoC forum, etc.

    Context matters and changes what it is we're looking at.

    Is it desirable to platform a community that basically says "jerking off to underage girls, but legal"? To put it another way...

    I would like to imagine fedinsfw as something beyond the boundaries of ordinary porn sites. It can be so much better. And I say this regardless of this aspect we are talking about, though, just to keep in mind.

  • KMFDM - I get it nowFLØRE - super cringe and lacking depth, but I still love it 😊

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  • Getting pissed at the noise kids make outside, playing.

  • Depends on the situation. But generally agree with the top comment.

    Recently a cop help me with something not so super legal. Was kinda hilarious as neither of us knew about the other until we casually talked about work and he showed his badge. He was really sweet, and just hated his job. Lost soul. Hope he finds a better way. But he's still a cop, so I ultimately wouldn't trust him.

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  • Also living in the ME, so I have some personal interest. After what I've heard and looked at, I personally put the risk of escalating regionally at extremely low right now.

  • I heard people I respect talk about it in ways I enjoyed :)

    The public feed, rules, etc. also looked like a good match for me. And I'm absolutely grateful to be able to post from here!

  • Alright, I don't care about the legal argument. That's for other folx to deal with. I care about a nice more or less ethical porn site.

    And btw. Multiverse also agreed with the law, and I can see why.

    I get the point of slippery slope arguments. So here's the potential harm I see, which I think you'd agree with is passing a point on the slope we don't want to cross: normalizing indulging in the sexualisation of minors, or just straight up normalising the sexualisation of minors.

    If the community calls itself fauxbait, the mental process is one of sexualisation of minors, even if it isn't what's depicted. Just like a written story is just ink on paper and no performer is hurt, it's about the mental process.

    They are not looking at these adults and thinking about fucking an adult. Just like the brain would do with a fictional story.

  • It's not just about the age of the performers, though. I also think most people here care more about actual harm than legality.

    To me it looks like it's about platforming the indulgence of the sexualization of minors. In a fictional sense, but still. Should they allow written rape fantasies of minors?

    I'm gonna lean towards that this is rather normalizing and harm producing than helping people. I would love to read science on this, but this is not my field, so hard to research myself.

  • My own career was undoubtedly determined, not by my own will but by various factors over which I have no control—primarily those mysterious glands in which Nature prepares the very essence of life, our internal secretions.

  • That's a really nice twist :)

  • Love these unveiling of manipulation tactics. Especially in a time where the narrative is usually focused on the face-value of disinformation/misinformation, or straight up lying when discovered.

  • The second one is mesmerizing. Never heard it, or a variation of it before. Thanks!

  • The moto I live my life by is “The day you stop learning is the day you become obsolete.”

    Working in tech, eh?

    Digging your choices, either way :)

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    What is your favorite quote, proverb, or piece of wisdom?

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    Improving handwriting when exhausted & slightly psychotic?

  • AltMedia @altmedia.house

    Why the Resistance Matters

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    Trump says 'deeply troubled' Lindsay Lohan, 18, must be 'great in bed' in resurfaced clip - NewsBreak

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    Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., "Why I Am Opposed to the War in Vietnam" / Riverside speech (April 30th, 1967 at the Riverside Church, New York)

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    Melancholic isolation in art and other media?