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go away. you are a weirdo if you are reading this.

  • that's not true.

    the delivery and tip is usually about 20-30% of the cost, the same as you'd pay in a sit down restaurant.

    when i order from places, my bill is the same pretty much as it would be if I went there and sat down to eat.

    i love these replies saying every order is $50 or something... these people have never used a delivery app. vast majority of my orders it's a 5 bucks in fees and a 5 buck tip on a 25 dollar food order. most of my orders are 30-35 dollars.

  • That tracks. You pissed off someone who had a connection with a mod and/or admin. Been there!

    I got banned once for dunking on IG travel trends and the mod involved was dumb enough to PM me threatening me.

    It's just pathetic how emotional and over reactive people saying crap on the internet they don't like. I don't agree with a lot of stuff but I see no reason to censor people for enjoying musicals or whatever else I hate.

  • You need a standing desk that way can be a standup whatever

  • what were they to her then? government tracking chips?

  • What are you smoking? basically every lemmy thread has that, and it's in this thread. Lots of lemmy users are angst atheist types who are think anyone who is remotely religious is a fundamentalist and are completely ignorant of moderate or reformist sects that make up the majority of believers.

  • i think they are just blinded by their hate of republicans as being the source of all evil in the world, like most lemmy users.

  • It's bait. Take a vague dataset, and draw overgeneralized conclusions from it to play into people's biases and hostilities.

    And people LOVE it. They want to believe that republicans are all evil transphobes who are sitting around masturbating at trans porn all day, because it makes them feel good about themselves to setup these strawmen compare themselves too.

    The truth of course, is far more nuanced and complex, but people don't want to learn. They want to hate-masturbate and ego-stroke.

    Oh and let's not forget, all religion is bad and evil and hates sex!

  • Oh hey, yeah I have noticed a lot of that too. People do weirdly feel the need to police other people's body parts. A lot of the straight/bi women I have dated are particularly nasty about this and will make casual commentary about strangers presentation or bodies, and it's a total double standard if I did that.

    Trans community has it's own massive issues internally. I have noticed also there is way more support and positivity for MtF than there is for FtM, and a lot of really hostile commentary on other people's stage of transition, or their sexuality.

    Sometimes I wonder, there does seem to be a cultural obsession with gatekeeping femininity and the so-called privileges of it, and yet nobody is seeking the privileges of masculinity. There is also a huge uptick in gender sentimentalism for cis people in bother presentation and gender roles, with those of us who don't focus on such things as being considered less than.

  • I'm an American. I've voted Republican.

    So I must necessarily hate trans people or something if I watch trans porn? Is that your thesis?

  • What audience?

  • I'm talking about you. You are the problematic person in this exchange, especially exhibited by your need to insult and demean the other user because of your refusal to acknowledge the legitimacy of their points and push your logical leaps and over-generalization that trans porn consumption is necessarily awful.

  • femboys are just trendy the past few years. like incest porn was awhile back.

  • Same is true for men/women who exhibit strong/exaggerated secondary sexual characteristics. Often it is viewed as inviting sexual harassment under the 'they were asking for it' stupidity.

    I think there is a lot of overlap too, with people's perceptions of trans presentation and say bimbofication, like they see your presentation as necessarily trying to call attention to yourself. And yeah for some really douchey people they see someone in wheelchair or etc as doing the same thing and for some reason it gets them angry for having to perceive difference in others.

  • People like rules that are clearly defined.

    They don't like gray areas.

    Because of the cognitive work involved. People do not want to think about things. They want to know them.

    It's not about authoritarianism, it's about the features of our brains and biology. Learning is literally a painful process for the brain and people avoid it. Not any different than how physical exercise is painful and people avoid it.

    People who seek to learn, just like people who seek physical exercise, have re-wired their brain to enjoy those things than by default, they would not.

  • Yeah that is the case. Utah has the highest porn consumption per capita, I recall.

    The more anti-porn a society is, the more they secretly consume porn.

    I have noticed that there is still a huge anti-porn sentiment here as well, that of course, narrowly focuses on porn addiction and extreme genres of pron and generalizes those things as something everyone who watches porn is or must become, rather than acknowledging most porn consumption is limited/casual and porn has a ton of genres and varieties and flavors.

  • I have no issue finding trans porn that isn't dehumanizing and has no slurs.

  • The person you are interacting with is trying to browbeat you because they don't like what you are saying because they have some weird anti-porn beliefs, which frankly, a lot of people do. They themselves are falling trap to the 'porn corrupts' anti-sex narrative, while seemingly being critical of anti-sex narratives. I see this all the time.

    And they are mad you are suggesting that all media corrupts, and porn isn't some super special deeply influential thing compared to any other media consumption. You evil porn-normalizer!

  • Anything that is taboo is attractive.

    Easiest way to make kids not interested in something is for their parents to do it. Easiest way to get them interested is for their parents to forbid them from it.

    Pot consumption among teens is plummeting, now that it's legalized and teens see it as something that their lame parents like doing, rather than something cool and illegal.

  • doesn't matter where you live, the people living in hell will force it down your throat because they want everyone else to be as miserable as they are.