Totally reasonable.
And sometimes (often, if I'm being honest) I find myself getting tired of shitty people being able to do and say shitty things and somehow it's rude to call it out.
Fully agree. It's goddamn exhausting trying to be the good guys. Feels.like the other side gets to cheat, like the villains throwing civilians in harms way so the heroes have to save them etc.
But the older I get and the more concerned about the world we're leaving for my friends' kids, the more I care about winning elections instead of feeling smugly superior. (I said, while being smugly superior at people on my side whom I feel are being childish and/or counter-productive.)
I don't think it has to be a part of their identity. I don't love the last party I just voted for. But if one of the parties vying for my vote calls supporters of that party garbage, I'm less inclined to listen to them.
Someone fed up with maga knows probably has a lot of trump supporting friends, family, church community etc whom they probably don't appreciate being called garbage.