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@ FRYD @sh.itjust.works

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Ugh I posted a selfie, so I guess I’ll do a somewhat real bio now that I’m not a mystery person anymore :/

  • Trans woman (she/her)
  • Photographer
  • Fashion addict
  • Occasional techie
  • Friendly (feel free to reach out)

  • Do you feel distressed and like have an identity crisis when you have moments of your life that you can't remember? (especially childhood)

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  • I suffered a serious head injury and have amnesia. I don’t remember the vast majority of my childhood and what I do is just bits and pieces. By the time I had fully recovered from the injury, I was totally used to just not remembering things. In hindsight and therapy, there are a few things about my memory loss that bother me.

    Overall though I’ve just accepted that remembering just isn’t all that important. You are who you are today. Memories may explain why you are the way you are or they might not. I just try to live the present and work towards the future. It’s freeing to live without the grudges, spite, or resentment of the past.

  • If you watch anime - or used to watch anime...

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  • My first series was Inuyasha. It was on Toonami which was Cartoon Network’s anime block they do right before it switches to Adult Swim. I figured that Toonami was just cartoons for adults since it was only on late. It was pretty cool and I tried to catch Toonami whenever I could growing up, but I was young and couldn’t really keep track of the plot. I didn’t actually learn what anime was until like the 7th grade (So I was like 11 or 12?) when I met some anime fans on the swim team.

    My favorite series is Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood. It’s essentially a perfect 10/10 show to me. I rewatch it every like 2-3 years. It has: excellent action, complex characters you really get attached to, great pacing, a consistent world and power scaling, great tension and stakes, and a clean and satisfying ending with almost no loose threads.

    My worst experience with anime? One night A friend and I were up late watching TV and Big O came on. We’d never seen or heard of it and the entire episode was some bizarre sequence with a guy randomly in and out of a mech surrounded by tomatoes. It was completely incomprehensible.

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    Is it true that the education system is crap in America?

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  • Going to college really shocked me when I realized just how bad my school teaching was. History and English were especially poor. I was regularly embarrassed to be one the few students completely unaware of significant events and people despite being an honors student with an advanced diploma. STEM subjects were fine, but I took advanced an college level courses in high school. I’m not sure how it would be for regular students.

  • If you woke up a billionaire tomorrow, what's the first thing you'd do?

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  • Do you hallucinate (without drugs)? What is it like for you?

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  • I have major depressive psychosis, so I experience hallucinations at varying rates depending on my mood. Sights and sounds are most common.

    I’ll see shadows moving in my periphery and they usually register as birds to me. Occasionally I’ll see a silhouette of a person looking at me. Both things disappear when I go to look at them.

    Sounds are typically laughter or screaming in the distance, very rarely it’ll be someone calling my name. When I go to bed, I’ll occasionally hear mumbling in my ears.

    Touch and smell are extremely rare, but do happen. Smells are usually some random persistent scent that goes away when I look for it. I’m anosmic (no sense of smell) so I know it’s not real every time. Touch is usually in the form of feeling bugs crawling on me or feeling random wetness.

    It’s sounds like a lot when it’s written out, but it’s honestly not that bad. I’m so used to it that I don’t really bother with my antipsychotics anymore.

  • What normally pleasant thing has poverty ruined for you?

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  • Hopefully the D&D community won’t hate me for this, but my experience with it is that everyone involved wants to be the main character. Everyone has to be quirky and have some kind of bit and it invariably slows any progress and makes the entire experience a drag.

  • What normally pleasant thing has poverty ruined for you?

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  • Ah unfortunately that would require a place more substantial than a small bedroom in my dad’s apartment 40 minutes out in the boonies. So I have to essentially wait for my ADHD friends to make plans at their bigger places, which is pretty infrequent since they’re way more happy just hanging out on discord every night than I am.

  • What song is maddeningly stuck in your head right now?

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  • “Haru Haru” by BIGBANG

  • What normally pleasant thing has poverty ruined for you?

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  • Spending money in pretty much any capacity. My financial situation is a good bit better than before; so I do have money to spend on non-essentials, but it’s a struggle every time.

    Last week me and my partner went to an aquarium, it was $50 a head for admission. I paid the $100 and spent the next 10 mins pretending to enjoy the aquarium while I ran the numbers in my head to make sure this expense wasn’t going to be the end of me. The anxiety never really went away and as we left I checked my bank account and my budget. I still had like $600 of unallocated funds.

    Every time my friends want to do anything that would cost me over $20, I’m apprehensive and I get serious anxiety if I spend $20+ more than like 3 times a week. It’s exhausting.

  • What are the best things to say to someone with body type insecurity?

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  • My go to logical line is to point out the absurd number of people there are.

    “I’m fat.”

    “There are literally millions of people in the world who wish they were your weight and there are millions more that are way heavier than you. You’re doing alright, be nicer to yourself.”

    Sure two million is technically a small rounding error in a population of eight billion, but it’s true enough. I guess this wouldn’t work in some extreme cases, but I’ve had decent success with it.

    I don’t have any canned emotional points though. To connect with someone emotionally you have to let them know they’re heard and understood and try to relate your own experiences if you can.

  • ‘Pokémon Go’ players have been unknowingly training delivery robots

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  • Huh, fair enough. Still, I do delivery work as my day job and I’m not worried about a box on wheels taking my job.

  • ‘Pokémon Go’ players have been unknowingly training delivery robots

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  • A single company has some robots delivering short distances in three affluent FL cities. Boxes on wheels will work in a tiny fraction of places around the country and the world. The vast majority of the data collected is useless for them. The technology doesn’t exist to do any better either.

    Like I said, Coco Robotics the company behind the FL robot deliveries is more likely to be a company hoping to be bought on the promise they can do more in the future than actually expecting to do any more. They’re private, so we don’t even know what their actual economics look like.

  • ‘Pokémon Go’ players have been unknowingly training delivery robots

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  • You’re not wrong, but my point was the fact that automated deliveries are a far off fantasy. By the time the physical technology exists to do this, the collected data will be irrelevant. Sure it would be better as a communist fantasy, but the reality is this is useless data being sold to companies that want to pretend it’s possible so their stock value goes up.

  • ‘Pokémon Go’ players have been unknowingly training delivery robots

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  • Is this bad? I mean I guess it has the potential to damage delivery workers, but isn’t working for grubhub or doordash already kind of a scam anyway? That’s before we consider that the likelyhood of any product coming to market that could actually successfully do deliveries. Sounds like a job complicated beyond the capabilities of any robot now or in the near future anyway.

  • You there! What are your Hobbies?

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  • Photography, knitting, hiking, baking, and video games.

  • What kind of car do you drive, and what kind do you wish you did?

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  • I have a 2021 Toyota RAV4 right now. It’s pretty much perfect for all my needs. I’ve always wanted a vespa, but I don’t think I’d want that to be my sole vehicle considering where I live.

  • I'd like to ask everyone, which movie have you rewatched more than three times?

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    • Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
    • Spirited Away
    • Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World
    • Tron
    • Every Disney movie that came out between Peter Pan and Toy Story 2 including those two.

  • What band/artist have you seen live more than once, would gladly go see again, and what keeps you coming back?

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  • I’ve seen Fox Stevenson and Yue twice. Yue was the opener for Fox at both shows that were a year apart. Both times were a ton of fun with good crowds and well priced drinks.

    I’ve also seen Three Days Grace twice. Once as part of a festival and another time as the headline act.

    I’d generally see any band or artist more than once as long as the first time was fun and the price is agreeable.

  • How did you meet your significant person?

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  • I met my partner in a queer bar for a kink event. We made eye contact a few times and when I approached them, we started complaining about our chronic pain and fucked up bodies.