This is a bit tricky, unfortunately. The gray one is much more into dry food and we've already had to cut back on food a little bit because he has been gaining weight.
I fear that if food is always available, the gray one would gain weight very quickly.
Thank you. And I sympathize, 40min is rough.
We've been using a catmate feeder for the last 2 nights and it seems to have helped a little.
But some of the morning ruccus may just be literal screams for attention 😏