That doesn't scale to prices you can afford. But yes, if you want to, and can afford to, buy pig products at 10x the price, then buy from local farmers whose farms you can see.
Of course I can speak. I spend fifteen minutes practicing my order in my head first, of course. And then yeah, I probably get the words on the wrong order. But they're all mostly there.
Meh. Judging people on eye contact is ableist.
But yeah, it could be that tactic and then the outcome is still good. Relationship ends.