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as alive as you need me to be

  • There is nothing sad about the death of a tyrant.

  • Call me American, but I prefer the TF2 engineer approach:

    Use a gun.

    And if that don't work, use more gun.

    ... I hope Luigi has the best Christmas he can.

  • I would not have thought a policy position could be objectively described as 'pro-rape', just inarguably, but, well, here we have it.

    Fucking horrifying.

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  • Thats a good point too.

    Addict as victim vs Addict as victimizer.

    Maybe thats not quite the preferred nomenclature, but yes, its very much worth considering what drives people to addiction, how to potentially help them... but the flip side of that is that addicts tend to be various kinds of awful to the people around them.

    You'd ideally need a holistic solution to the entire situation, but that's often very difficult to pull off, in practice.

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  • Thats a good point, but in my defense, I'd argue thst an alcoholic just is a manipulative narcissist, a flavor of them, just with worse memory and coordination.

  • I thought I was was responding to an entirely different thread in an art comm.

    The piece is titled "Happy Person Having A Pleasant Conversation In Public", by Randy Ortiz.

    ... But now, he is Art, Arthur.

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  • Well the good news is:

    1. That literally is not your fault.
    2. You can learn to gradually undo some of those tendencies, to some extent.

    My lemmy instance has a series of random... header quotes, like flavortext in a game loading screen or something.

    One of them, which ironically seems to be an apocryphal, misattirubted quote, but is still a good sentiment nonetheless:

    "Before you determine that you suffer from depression or low self-esteem, first, make sure that you are not simply surrounded by assholes."

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  • That's a much better inclination.

    Cow Milk? Yes/No?

    That'd be my first thought, in your line of thinking.

    ... but you can tie that back to... bloodlines, lineage, peoplegroups, haplogroups, whatever word you want to use.


    Most east asians just literally do not have the genetic lineage to support regular consumption of dairy products, the way most europeans do.

    Because... we (hi, I'm white) come from a long line of cow milk drinkers, east asians do not.

    Its funny reading a bunch of article headlines like "why are so many east asians lactose intolerant?"

    No. Fucking, no.

    We're the weird ones.

    We are the ones who essentially decided to become mutants, due to our dietary choices.

    What other animal regularly drinks the milk of another species of animal?


    Here's another weird one:

    Redheads.

    (At least broadly 'white european' redheads)

    They ... experience pain differently.

    While they have an overall higher pain tolerance, they are also more sensitive to certain kinds of pain, and they need a somewhat higher dosage of something like novacaine to experience the same levels of pain reduction as a non redhead.


    So basically, if you have a redheaded east asian child, don't give them a high dairy diet.

    You'll hurt them, literally.

    (this is mostly a joke, i dont really know if ... that would be the case. it seems to follow, as ... the two things i described, they seem to operate independently on different genes/gene clusters, but genetics is all about finding out how things you would not expect to be connected, actually are)

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  • potato, potato.

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  • Hey uh, that second paragraph?

    I am not a psychologist, but:

    Thats probably a sign of something like being raised by abusive narcissists.

    Your natural instinct is 'it has to be my fault'?

    Yeah.

    Because narcissists tell other people its always their fault, its their flaw or poor decision.

    Its a form, or aspect or manifestation of hypervigilance.

    Because you are so used to some new problem happening that is somehow, your fault or responsibility to fix, or address.

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  • People misread social cues, emotional states, intent, incorrectly ascribe causality of these things, etc., all the time, every single day, constantly, for a wide array of reasons.

    https://mindorigins.com/mind-reading-or-mammalian-instinct-why-we-misinterpret-social-cues/

    People with low self awareness or high overconfidence just don't realize that they are.

    You actually have to have a significant amount of humility in order to have "high eq".

    People who make an entire personality or significant personality trait out of their infallible ability to read people?

    Who will outright tell people: "I know you better than you know you"?

    Vast majority of the time, in the vast majority of contexts, such a person is a delusional manipulative narcissist, a cult leader / grifter scam artist type personality.

  • Being honest with himself.

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  • Geneticists do, basically.

    Haplogroups.

  • Welp, that was unintentional, but... apparently our shadow person here... yep, meet Arthur everyone.

    Don't be shy.

    ... he would not like that, if you were shy...

    EDIT: Wow, I thought this comment was in another thread.

    ... I'm leaving this here for additional absurdity.

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  • Uh, this is not a reminder to stare at art.

    Please do not stare at art.

  • "Brood-mares for more mine yearners" party

  • Thats fucking amazing.

    That's the IRL / performance art equivalent of "ceci n'est pas une pipe."

  • Man, I've been homeless and seen some wild shit on busses... fairly regularly...

    That?

    What you've just described?

    That's expectional even to me.

    God damn.