is a really good one. She does a lot of research and primary source backed videos that are really good for education without being straight up depressing like a lot of things are.
otherwise there's meanstv, a video platform coop that's mostly leftists, but that's a paid service
I try to have 3 places in mind for a change of scenery, and if there's something going on at at least one spot, that can take the pressure off of talking. i try to sit next to the person, like at a bar top, instead of across because that just feels like a job interview or something.
aside from that, engaging conversation. Probe for interest and if they reciprocate, then you can go a bit further until they don't or you're making out.
funny thing though, I started planning some of my outings with friends like I was doing a date. Instead of just going to the bar and "yyyyup"-ing for a couple hours, I try to find a shoe or something going on and then change locations to something else interesting. By the end my buds are commenting about how much fun they had.
so plan the date around interesting things or environments, or just something going on or something to look at. Then just have fun and relax.
Also, I read something from one of the old dating sites where they said that a sushi date is 27% more likely to get a second date. All of my sushi dates have gotten second dates.
this was a fun read! I haven't done much web UI in years, so it was nice to learn about some of the new, nice things that are available. i don't think I'd remember some of the more advanced stuff though.
Cloudflare tunnels - it used to be dynamic dns, but the ISP blocked ports 80/443, so I switched to tunnels.External DNS on the Gl-Inet router, included with the productGoodcloud, from Gl-Inet (included and really nice to have another way to get to it)
for the home self-hosting, that's pretty much it.
For the (coming soon TM) fediverse apps in Keyboard Vagabond, add in S3, cloudflare CDN
I totally didn't use Apple's permission system to disable (not crowd strike, something similar) because it was breaking everything. In my hypothetical defense, everyone said that rollout was a disaster.
in addition to the other suggestions of checking the rame stick, do you have resource limits on your containers? It's generally a good thing to have anyway, but I'd do that after checking the ram and cooling situation. Check your cpu temps as well.
They're crawling the web, the don't need to target the fediverse specifically. The crawler will come here and it will either having programming or recognition of sites that update.
https://youtube.com/@revolutionaryth0t
is a really good one. She does a lot of research and primary source backed videos that are really good for education without being straight up depressing like a lot of things are.
otherwise there's meanstv, a video platform coop that's mostly leftists, but that's a paid service