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midimalist

@ midimalist @lemdro.id

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  • What is your justification for your own existence?

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  • We shouldn't, but we're here anyway, so that's a thing.

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  • So I just check the setting again because I literally never see an NSFW post when browsing all. Turns out there are two options for NSFW, one to blur (in "Appearance") and one to hide (in "Filters and Blocks").

    Have you tried the latter? Because I just turned it off seconds ago and NSFW posts start appearing now.

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  • Appreciate the clarification. Somehow NSFW stuff rarely appear on my feed so I didn't really notice.

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  • Isn't there a "hide NSFW" feature in Voyager?

  • LLM API client on Nintendo DS Lite

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  • Out of topic, but I'm unreasonably happy that you use the more exact word "LLM" instead of AI. Cool project!

  • Whose opinion do you trust most?

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  • Carl Sagan

  • 60% of TikTok videos are AI slop; 21% of YouTube ones

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  • Ah, I stand corrected. Hopefully admins will do something about it asap

  • 60% of TikTok videos are AI slop; 21% of YouTube ones

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  • Guessing by the kind of people who use lemmy, probably not from conventional casino or lottery, but stocks/crypto or, less likely, gacha game.

    Lost some money from stock myself.

  • You come across the Death Note today. What do you do with it?

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  • IIRC, heart attack is the "default" way if the cause of death is not specified, so supposedly I can write that Jane Doe dies peacefully in her sleep.

  • You come across the Death Note today. What do you do with it?

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  • Interesting response for someone with your username

    But I agree. I would probably use it as voluntary euthanasia tool for painful incurable disease/condition.

  • Like Neo in The Matrix and "I know kung fu", what one ability would you choose to upload directly to your mind?

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    How do you deal with loneliness?

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  • I think finding a community of people from your country might help alleviate some of the homesickness.

    Maybe check/follow your ambassador social media and see if they have any event?

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  • I thought you were making a scholarly pun. Turns out not et al

  • When was the last time you felt guilt about something, as in that emotional pit you noticeably feel in your stomach when you have done something wrong towards someone?

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  • Sorry for the late answer and the text wall

    1. Depends on the severity and how much they know about my avoidance habit. I would say sorry (as genuine as I can) and told them about my problem (or most likely make up a believable one that neurotypical person can accept) that made me unable to respond to them in timely manner. That it is wholly a Me problem and not a You problem. I would try my best to complete what they ask of me or help them with something else just to keep it even. This vulnerability talk will exhaust your mental energy tbh, some people will definitely have negative reaction and rightfully so, especially in professional setting. Tho some bridges have been burnt so bad I don't even try 🫠 Still, it's very much worth it, rather than spiralling down to depression town, sinking in the guilty mud trap.
    2. I too wish I have an answer for this one. If you have the means, try finding out the reason. Maybe it's ADHD, maybe it's AvPD, maybe it's both, neither, or something else. So far, applying CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) has helped me improve, but it's not a bulletproof solution. My avoidance mostly comes from my tendency to be a perfectionist (which comes from past experience, upbringing, yadda yadda), so I try to accept that sometimes it is okay to be flawed, to disappoint, to not try my best for someone else's sake just to get their approval. Try to have healthy habits that improve mood/health. I also try not to spend too much time inside all day without actual human interaction, because I can definitely get more anxious when I haven't interact with real people (actual interaction face-to-face, not text/chat with people online) to keep me grounded.

    Just keep on keeping on one step at a time.

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  • Nooo youuuu! 🤭

  • What's a trend people outside of your field / hobby are probably unaware of?

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  • I used to think white wall and floor are just too basic, but having stayed in my friend's almost-all-black studio apartment made me appreciate how easy it is in white/bright-themed bathroom to see any impending cockroach before it crawls on any of my limbs :(

  • When was the last time you felt guilt about something, as in that emotional pit you noticeably feel in your stomach when you have done something wrong towards someone?

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  • Ghosting someone (multiple really) when I just couldn't handle all the things they expect me to do. It's childish and very much my own mistake for not being clear with my boundary and overestimating my mental energy.

    Slowly making it up one person to the next.

  • When was the last time you felt guilt about something, as in that emotional pit you noticeably feel in your stomach when you have done something wrong towards someone?

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  • You just gotta prepare something for their birthday next year. No need for something big, just thoughtful. Add a sincere apology or two and I'm sure they will appreciate it.

    I also tend to forget someone's birthday other than my partner and immediate family so I just put them in my calendar. No more accidentally forget about friends' birthday, unless I'm really busy and my ADHD acting up.