I think familial relationships are often romanticized in movies. I always see siblings act like they are best friends with each other and in my reality my brother and I are just two people. We like each other but I wouldn’t say he’s my best friend and I don’t think he would say it either.
Spend what you can afford. Diamonds aren’t that special, maybe consider a stone that means more to your partner.
I refused to ask my wife’s father for permission to marry her. She is not his property and tbh even if he had said no (he wouldn’t have) I would have asked her anyway.
The only equipment you really need are shoes and chalk which you’ll be able to rent at your local gym. Lucky for you, you’ll probably be the first person to wear the rental 16’s. Bouldering is a good way to start by yourself since you don’t use ropes or if your gym has auto belay you can climb top rope by yourself. Otherwise you’ll need to pair up with someone to belay you (keep you hoisted up).
What makes a climbing gym a “good” gym can be a few subjective things. For just starting out you aren’t really going to know the difference in route setting so you’re just looking for a place you can feel comfortable. Look at the gyms in your area and grab a day pass to one or two of them and see what the vibes are at each spot. As far as gym culture, in my experience climbing gyms are the opposite of normal gyms. Just don’t hog the spot of the wall you’re trying to climb, if you fall a few times and there are people waiting take a few and let them go. Don’t be afraid to ask questions to the staff about how to do certain things and most of the time fellow climbers will be more than happy to help you out too.
If you give me a general idea of your location i can look at what gyms are in your area.
100% language and customs. I’m pretty good at navigating once I’ve spent a little time in a new place.