I feel ya, some of the posts you said that on, probably should be NSFW. But not a romantic kiss imho. Other sites solved this ages ago with explicit, questionable and safe tags.
I think it's ridiculous that Lemmy adopted the binary NSFW option from Reddit. With the Ukraine war and people posting videos as NSFW with body parts laying around. I don't want to see the anime pictures in the same bucket as that either.
There needs to be more tags and that would make everyone happy.
The only rule was I had to get them myself (unless it was a special occasion) and not to disturb the house while gaming.
Most of my PC games were from the win95 and MS-DOS era. But I do remember getting half-life 1 and eventually 2, and all the crazy mods that came out for those.
I remember playing the leisure suit larry games and not understanding any of the jokes haha.
That's an impressive amount of financial independence in my eyes, given what could be occurring.