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  • Excruciating period pain that would leave me fainting and vomiting every. Single. Time.

    "Every girl goes through this" said the doctor, convincing my parents that I was just "dramatic".

    Turns out I had huge polyps growing out of control! Left scarring in my uterus and high-risk when pregnant.

    Dealt with that hell every fucking month since I was 11 until I got onto birth control in my 20s.

  • Blessings to you. 🙏

  • Neat! Shuttle service! Zaph, get in!! We're going get overpriced drinks at a loud, overstimulating place and complain about it the entire time!!

  • As someone who is handicapped through no fault of my own, it fills me with sorrow that you feel this way. Self-harm through neglect is no way to live.

    My handicap initially left me with no way to walk for nearly 2 years. No doctor would touch my case. My kid literally could not hug me. I was dependent on so many people during that time and could barely take care of anyone else.

    I cannot tell you what to do.. but I'm probably not going to live very long anyway (thank you, genetics!), so I'd like to encourage you to find purpose. I found my purpose in creation by sewing, and it brings me overwhelming joy. My goal is to continue creating things to spread that joy to others.

    If that doesn't convince you, please know this: there are evil, shitty people in power out there who revel in your self-destruction and actively want you to destroy yourself. Please do not let them win. Continue to do your best in order to spite them and help people who aren't so fortunate.

  • I was really worried I was rambling!! Glad to know that you will be searching with renewed vigor. Enthusiastically wishing you all the best! (:

  • Not being traditionally masculine does not make you less of a man.

    The man who moved me most in life was a sensitive, artistic, nervous, sweetheart of a man, whom I doted on, had him sit on my lap while he cried, cuddled and kissed him until he felt better, called him sugary names (lamb, darling, sweetheart), pet him often, and just absolutely loved on him.

    Men often get upset if you refer to them as "cute", and I was unable to feel any of them put me on equal footing before him. The fact that he was emotionally open and outright with his feelings was what had attracted me to him in the first place. I am absolutely not a "dominant" person, but my desire to protect and love him in this was something no other man even allowed me the opportunity to do.

    I recall saying that something was "cute" while we were out, and he quietly asked "am I cute?". The answer was, of course, "Yes, darling! Of course you are!" If he wanted me to, I would have moved all the stars in the sky for that man.

    Men (often secretly) desire to be desired, and it is weirdly seen as a more feminine urge. However, men who identify as masc can still desire the sensitivity of desire. Nothing feminine about it.

    There are women out there who will desire what you have to offer. It may be a search to find them, but they are out there.

  • Because you're a thoughtless asshole with shitty opinions.

  • And he's right!

  • Congrats on becoming one with the Drew Crew!!

  • I live for his current content! Edgy jokes & constant swearing to thrift store journeys & food discoveries. Absolutely love it!

    He was actually how I discovered the Cosmic Crisp & sparked my love for it. (:

  • Aye. Fixed. ):

  • Eggs are were one of the cheapest sources of sustainable protein for many low-income families in the US.

  • I am a dedicated Peepy enjoyer. (:

  • I'll adopt a cat. 🤞

    EDIT: I read the question wrong, but I'm keeping it up.

  • I didn't do this. I voted for the less evil of the parties, I advocate for the handicapped and disabled, I support LGBTQ+ rights, I give resources to those who can't afford healthcare or houses. I did what I fucking could.

    This is like blaming the individual for pollution. Who's contributing the most to pollution?

    It sucks. It sucks so fucking hard. But we need to keep going and not cease our efforts in the face of despair.

    I'm doing what I can. That's what I can do, and that's what I will do.

  • Hello it's me ur friend I'm coming over for dinner

  • There is no line for me.

    I'm incredibly fragile and seeing people I care about be hurt by all this hurts me incredibly much.

    I'm now avoiding the news and doing my best to instead be a positive influence, help where I am able, offer support, donate what I can, etc.

    I refuse to let evil fucking idiots steal my joy.