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  • So why don't communities like jailbait, beatingwomen, incel, watchwomendie etcetera exist here then?

  • That is fair,I do typically avoid Violets posts because of her age. Even at only 32 it makes me a bit uncomfortable. But I'd feel the same if it was a self proclaimed 18 year old male posting about how much they love drinking piss. It's good she can express herself and all, just not my thing to engage with personally. I read through many of the comments and I can't disagree sexsim exists here. I still strongly believe its the small minority and consistently frown upon by the majority. Aside from all that, I just so heavily disagree with that entire last statement lol. Considering lemmy to be even remotely close to old or contemporary 4chan/Reddit is completely insane. It kind of makes me feel you've not engaged with old or contemporary 4chan especially but reddit too. You know both sites have in the past and currently still host literal footage of rape,murder, sexual assault. Especially 4chan, there are at all times a "women rekt" (videos of dead women, them being raped, killed and/or assaulted) threads floating around. Reddit has dedicated misogynistic non kink communities with thousands of participants. The part I think is most important about that also, it has NOTHING to do with an actual ideologic stance. Its about advertising and making money. Thats why subreddits like jailbait, incel , etcetera. Only started disappearing when big money started coming in. Communities and posts like that do not and have not (to my knowledge) exist here. Clearly that's based ideologically not financially. I just really see that last paragraph as so completely ignorant and disingenuous.

  • But thats what I'm saying. I see the vast majority consistently calling out, downvoting and arguing against that minority. Significantly moreso than any other mixed online space I've engaged with. That's the difference I see and I think is being completely ignored. The overall cultural stance here is strongly against. Whereas every other major platform even remotely like this isn't. I guess pushing for better isn't a bad thing but I see it as a disingenuous angle. If anyone can make an account and engage, shitheads will poke out, its the way they are reacted to that sets the cultural standard. I see the way they're reacted to being highly negative. I see it as, there are some sexist people on Lemmy and they are consistently treated as shitty by the majority. Not, Lemmy is a sexist place for sexist people.

  • I just see a loud small minority being treated as if its the vast majority. I feel the same about the shitty rape apologist/pedophilic comments you brought up. It just seems disingenuous to paint Lemmy as being a bastion for sexism where it's pushed, accepted and promoted. I wouldn't engage with the site or any of it's communities if that were the case. I'm more suprised that if you believe it is, you choose to.

  • It's a daily constant occurrence that is universally approved of and pushed? Because that's what OP is saying in the post and comments.

  • I'm less worried about being electrocuted and more worried about creating a fire hazard

  • Well yeah, they earned the title of lord by being financially, morally and genetically superior.

  • Ratio too positive rn we need more down stat

  • Now you're getting it. The system doesn't work without the heroic landlord class.

  • I couldn't be happier

  • Fr fr on Gawd. A Buddy in my group chat was complaining about his landlord, another started flooding the chat with memes like this.

  • That makes it so much more funny. the current 7/25 ratio is hilarious. Ideally we stay single digits up and reach triple digits down.

  • I'm similar, my only rule is I don't work on gas or complicated electricity. Too risky, bring in a pro.

  • Nah this isn't a meme or a satirical joke, it's factual and you're correct to take it as such.

  • My fattening knows no season, only way too many carbs and servings of fatty meat.

  • I have a queer friend that calls his GMC Yukon his Gay Man's Chariot. When we go places in it he usually initiates by saying something like "to the chariot"

  • Is the art they make misogynistic? Leaving out the pedophilic angle. This is true, I used to date a black girl who liked being called slurs in bed. Now, say I made a post about how bad and pervasive slurs are on Lemmy. The first two things that would come up are, no they aren't/can you show me that, and wait, aren't you the guy who used slurs with your gf?

  • That's a logical answer. I consider myself pretty pragmatic on most things but I'm the same as you with objects I use.

  • That's a great answer!

  • memes @lemmy.world

    We are a family at this company.

  • memes @lemmy.world

    Found em

  • memes @lemmy.world

    Furry monster

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world

    Who do you like for political music?

  • memes @lemmy.world

    Never

  • memes @lemmy.world

    Ah beans

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world

    Why are you a furry?

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world

    What is your absolute favorite joke?

  • Technology @lemmy.world

    CO₂ scrubbing microbes discovered in underground laboratory

    phys.org /news/2026-05-microbes-underground-laboratory.html
  • memes @lemmy.world

    Dog to big dawg

  • memes @lemmy.world

    Impressive

  • memes @lemmy.world

    Nah, I got places to be

  • memes @lemmy.world

    Bad photoshop not AI

  • memes @lemmy.world

    Fun fact

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world

    "You can't out train a bad diet" and "you can't out earn bad spending habits" what are some other true clichés along the same lines as these?

  • memes @lemmy.world

    Unironically looks like my backyard.

  • memes @lemmy.world

    Who woulda thought

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world

    What's the biggest misconception you think many people have?

  • memes @lemmy.world

    Stimulating

  • memes @lemmy.world

    Gonna have a whole ass watermelon in me.