I'm reminded of the TERFs who say "Oh so you're keeping the dick? Interesting..." while simultaneously making it nearly impossible to get Genital Reconstruction Surgery
They want us to transition as little as possible. Not because they think it will stop us from being trans but because it makes us easier to identify.
A big reason I didn't leave spirituality for awhile was, well, I was brought up by media to think of skeptics as close-minded, arrogant, and rude.... And Reddit Atheists don't do much to dispell that notion.
Took awhile to realize, the truth really is not out there.