"Fuck lawns" energy, but for graveyards. (no not like that, stoppit!)
Or postmortem services in general. If you want to give something to someone, do it when they're still around to appreciate it. Once they're dead, they won't give a fuck about the fancy funeral or coffin or w/e you bought for em.
Functionally yes, but those partaking generally see it as a gesture for the deceased, not therapy in disguise.
I'm all for therapy, it's just the way we go about it in this context is stupid and wasteful.