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BonesOfTheMoon

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    1. You are a generous and responsible parent.
    2. All I can say is that my ex's parents basically didn't do shit for him, and his father was very wealthy and his mother got a positively palatial alimony check in those days, and yet he was left to his own devices for higher education and early adulthood, and it showed up in his adult habits in that he did really spiteful things regarding money because those needs weren't met. I'm sure because you are this supportive your son will feel confident and responsible and be well grounded in life because he didn't have to think about having his needs met, which is the ultimate wound really.

  • Uncircumcised penis owners, did you ever wish you were circumcised?

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  • You're not reading this clearly.

  • Uncircumcised penis owners, did you ever wish you were circumcised?

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  • I'm giving the answers the urology group told me, and also what I think. I am not saying do it, and I did say I don't agree with it.

  • Uncircumcised penis owners, did you ever wish you were circumcised?

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  • I hope so. I get what the urology perspective is. It's honestly horrible to go through past infancy after 3 months of age, so being honest with your ability to do the necessary care is the most important thing. God it was a horrible thing to listen to though.

  • Uncircumcised penis owners, did you ever wish you were circumcised?

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  • I worked in pediatric urology so I'll give you their perspective first. The urologist's assistant said the thing to do is assess honestly whether you'll keep up with your child's hygiene, if you are comfortable ensuring they'll clean their foreskin as they grow up. My friend says she really had to stand over her son and tell him to wash his penis again and again. Boys are not the best at hygiene sometimes, so as long as you are comfortable ensuring he does so, don't circumcise. If you don't think you'll be comfortable with that, be realistic, because boys get what's called phimosis where the foreskin becomes stuck and doesn't retract, and while there's a cream called betnovate you can apply to relieve this, if it becomes chronic and there's scarring, having circumcision as an older child is much more of an ordeal, as they have to go under general anesthesia. These are the pros and cons.

    I think circumcision is a bad idea and don't recommend it myself because I've heard a baby crying during one personally and that's horrifying, but this is what the medical reality of it is, so be honest with yourself about what you can do as a parent. It's honestly a terrible thing for them to go through without anesthesia as well. Bullying be damned, anyone who is offended by a normal penis isn't worth your time anyway.

  • what's the dumbest thing your pet has done?

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  • Must like the endorphins.

  • What's that longest time you went without eating? Why?

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  • This makes me miss Flyingsquid.

    Me, a couple of days at most when I had Norwalk.

  • what's the dumbest thing your pet has done?

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  • My pug who passed recently would eat literally anything. This includes raw potatoes that he dug out of the ground himself, very hot peppers off the plant (he was delighted with this), a jar of dried soup beans, and a bag of slivered almonds. The first two I simply never thought he'd think to eat, the beans and almonds I thought were out of reach and weren't. He was absolutely fine each time and very pleased with himself. When my ex would bring the grocery buckets in, he would be waiting and take a chomp out of anything he could reach, celery or lettuce or peppers. It really was cute despite the horrible poops he would have, and I miss him awful.

  • Leaving food on the counter - the absolute survey

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  • I keep my lunch in my work bag all day, not in the fridge, unless it's salad where it should be crisp.

    I did the European thing where I kept eggs on the counter. It's best that way. Real unwashed farm eggs, not shit from the grocery store.

  • What is something you enjoy doing but suck at?

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  • Dancing. I did go to a party last week with a DJ and danced my ass off anyway.

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    Is it normal to not value any other type of relationships other than romantic?

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  • No, that's narcissistic as far as I'm concerned.

  • YT Music vs. Tidal?

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  • I use YouTube music but I am going to change to Tidal. I'm so sick of YTM. It crashes all the time and stops playing randomly in the middle of songs. I tried Spotify which I hated, and Apple Music which seems to have different licensing for some stuff and doesn't have a lot of the classical music I want, but also has a lot of stuff that's nowhere else. It also mixed terribly. If Tidal pays artists better then that's better anyway.

    Also, two words for you: Metrolist and SimpMusic. Find your way. :)

  • People who have permanently moved to another country, what gave you the opportunity and was it worth it?

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  • I had a friend who lived that way for years in Baja, just went over for work and went home, loved it there.

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    People aged 25+ How often do you hang out/see friends?

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  • All the time.

  • I'm calling the police.

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  • Aww I'm sorry. Welcome to Lemmy!

  • Necessary Purchase

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  • Apples with razor blades in them and whatall.

  • Never a moment's peace

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  • That is....all the things.

  • Make sure to go to the store Monday.

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  • I just didn't happen to know about it until my aunt told me a third cousint did a family tree recently and identified a few distant relatives who are indigenous, so it was interesting for me is all. I knew I was partly Quebecois but I didn't know about the Habitant part either.

    It's just really visible now. I looked at r/Canada a few times and I'm just horrified at what they say. I'm not saying it wasn't present but they're normalizing saying deport people.

  • Make sure to go to the store Monday.

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  • And smallpox!

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    Maybe Mpox to reflect modern times.

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    I vote number three.

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    Happy spooky month.

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    My friend's parents had the Joy Of Lesbian Sex too.

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    Well I think it looks rather tasteful.

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    I am a crab.

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    Riding in the car with the windows rolled up and them smoking away.

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    Amen.

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    I'll just leave this here.

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    It's true.

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    Dem immigrunts terk er dawgs.

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    Carry on my wayward son.

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    Antivax mom is a lying liar.

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    Sovcit doesn't want to do business with the city.

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    Things went well for sovcit.

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    Sovcit wants to sue the police.

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    Sovcit told them to let her go. Comments of crazy included.

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    Sovcit has some plates, going to the Supreme Court.

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    A sovcit FAFO.

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    Sovcit says the coroner arrests the judge.