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Acamon

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  • With comparison comes misery. Do you agree?

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  • Depends what you're comparing to. One of the ways I deal with stuff I'm finding unpleasant is to compare the experience to a worse situation. My work can be stressful, but at least I don't work 9to5, 48 weeks a year like so many people do. I'm renovating a house and it's exhausting and such a long commitment, but at least I'm in good health. Many of my friends have health problems that would make heavy labour and climbing on roofs impossible, so when I'm tired and achy at the end of a day I try and see it as a sign of my good health and strength.

    Obviously, if I compared myself to a younger and fitter person, whose knees wouldn't hurt and didn't need to wear wrist braces, that could make me feel bad or envious and that would be dumb. Only make comparisons that highlight how lucky you are to be you.

  • Posers

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  • Read the manga anyway, Gas Turbines are lit

  • How do y'all feel joy without alcohol or weed?

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  • Doing 'nothing much' while stoned can be good fun, but is miserable sober. Youre probably not going to feel happy without alcohol / thc if you're just remove them and don't change your lifestyle. Think about activities that weed doesn't go that well with and try and get into those. That's why 'sober' people are often the folks going for early morning runs or playing in sports clubs, or their taking on lots of projects and creating /renovating / etc. What interests you is personal, but reading, gardening, outdoor walks, climbing, community activitivism, learning a language, etc are all good choice.

  • Whats the worst game mechanic?

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  • Ahh. Thanks, I hate it. Sounds horrendous and exactly like EA .

  • Whats the worst game mechanic?

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  • Very much not a sports guy. What's the ultimate team? And what's the problem with it?

  • I am getting offended on this kind of messages, am I overreacting?

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  • Having read through your other post that person was being weird, got heavily downvoted and it's perfectly reasonable that you got offended. It's not even clear what his point was, because your post wasn't about money. So, they were presumably jumping to a lot of conclusions and then responding to an imagined different post.

  • Say your partner is gone for around a week, and you're home alone. What are you going to do that you wouldn't normally with someone around?

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  • It's hugely valuable. I love my partner deeply, but I often fall into a trap of imagining that life was simpler an dmore fun when I didn't have to care about another person's needs and could just be the goblin inside. But when I actually get the chance, the novelty wears off pretty quick and I'm so happy when they're back.

  • Say your partner is gone for around a week, and you're home alone. What are you going to do that you wouldn't normally with someone around?

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  • Eat at arbitrary times when I'm hungry, and eat lots of spicy food. Smoke weed and play computer games. Feel a bit lonely.

  • Fictional

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  • Anyone come up with a good measure of distance that makes the speed of light a nice round number? I like the metric system, but the meter feels pretty arbitrary. We could do better!

  • What's something you do that is not "age appropriate"?

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  • Sleeping with a cuddly toy. My parter converted me and they're great. Tbh, they actually make a lot of sense as a middleaged person. Now that I'm old and less flexible, I end up with a sore back or shoulder if I don't have proper support when sleeping. And I'd much rather have a big lion buddy than some weird orthopedic pillow or Dutch wife.

  • why do so many people think the brain is somehow totally isolated from the body?

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  • Descartes, and Protestantism.

  • Banana

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  • Totally. The smell is awful, ive always associated it with smell of an ripe bag of garbage. I don't know if it's because bananas just smell bad, or because the smell of old banana peel in the trash is the scent that I notice the most, but it's not a good association.

  • Banana

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  • The taste. I've tried to like them. Had them in smoothies and banana bread, had the is savoury and sweet things. I even made myself eat one everyday while hiking cross country, thinking I'd learn to associate the taste which much needed energy. Nothing worked, they just taste like garbage smells. And the texture! Firm and soft each have their unique horrors.

  • In hindsight, how much did you like your younger self? If present-you met your younger self (say, age 10) from an alternate timeline, do you think you could be friends?

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  • Not sure your scenario is really about being friends. Choosing to take care of a child is more about my situation, than how much I might like them. If you are only taking care of a child because you like them, you are putting them at a lot of risk. Even great kids will be challenging, and a decent person cares for them even when they are unlikable or downright awful. That's pretty much the definition of unconditional love (though, reading through the comments here it sounds like a lot of lemmings didn't get that growing up).

    As for, would I like myself? 10 year old me, sure! We share a lot of interests (I'd love to dm a game of dnd for him), and although a kid can be quite annoying, I think I'd be pretty fond of the little fella. I suspect I'd also gain a lot sympathy for my parents, and would love to try supporting him with some of his creative projects that he was always starting and never finishing.

    20 year old me? Probably too wild to be close friends and I'd think he was an arrogant idiot at times, but probably find him kinda hot so I'd let it slide (my 'type' is pretty much younger me...). 30 year old me? Not all that different, could definitely be friends!

  • What are your thoughs about YouTube clickbait?

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  • I think it's a spectrum. I mostly hang out in fairly nerdy and middle-aged corners of YouTube, so I don't see the worst of shitty clickbait. If a video from an unknown creator is suggested to me a clickbaity or ragebaity headline will probably make me avoid them.

    But I don't mind an attention grabbing title "These AWFUL ingredients were ESSENTIAL for medieval peasants" or "This IMPOSSIBLE theory lead to the discovery of oxygen". It's kinda lame, but it still says what the topic of video is. Worse, imho, are things like "Why do smart people keep believing this" which uses the mystery / anticipation to suck you in. From a creator I like, it won't put me off (tbh, I probably won't even think about it as clickbait because I know their work is usually good) but it's not cool, and would put me off an unknown creator.

    Basically, I don't care that much about headlines (or the stupid YouTube faces), but I hate shitty, shallow content. And a lot of the time, a clickbaity headline indicates a shallow video, so it has a negative effect on my interest.

  • Is it true that progressives are more collectivist rather than individualist?

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  • Depends what you mean. I think 'progressives' are usually more collectivist in the economic / social democracy sense. But 'conservatives' are often collectivist in the sense that everyone should have same beliefs, same religion etc. I think that's something that people sometimes miss, that right wing people are solely motivated by bullying people for being 'different' or wanting to control people's private lives. They do both those things, but partly because some geninuely struggle to believe that different lifestyles can coexist. Everyone needs to have same sexuality and eat the same kinds of foods, so of course they want the collective choice to align with their personal preference.

    As a left-wing person, I find it mind-boggling that people don't see the unfairness of billionaires and poverty coexisting. And beyond unfairness, the existance of wealth disparity makes things worse for the poor than if everyone was equally poor. But conservatives think that its none of anyone's business what happens in the bank account.

  • What technologies were ubiquitous ten years ago and are much less common now?

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  • I'm sure that's true, but I've never managed to keep a pair of earpods for more than a couple of years. I always end up losing them, generally while travelling.

  • What technologies were ubiquitous ten years ago and are much less common now?

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  • They usually charge themselves in their case (small pods) or have big batteries (over ear). I use my pods probably 8 hours a day, and just need to charge the case once or twice a week.

  • What's a subject you (think) you know more about than the average Lemmy user?

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  • It was a university degree in the UK , and then I worked for the NHS for a number of years (until I moved to France and a much more relaxing job teaching at a university). I mostly specialised in pediatrics, particularly ASD and other developmental conditions. If I'd stayed with adults I would have focused on Aphasia and acquired language disorders. I found neurology very fun, and the way that damage could reveal the maaany faculties required for effective communication was super intresting to me.

    LSVT is certainly well-evidenced and I've seen it be very effective. But it's quite repetitive, so colleagues who did a lot of it sometimes complained of not getting a chance to be creative in their approaches, just having to stick to the protocol.

    Dysphagia is a bit scary, but it makes such an incredible difference. Even many years after working with stroke survivors, every time I'm incredibly thirsty I think about the poor folks who were 'nil by mouth' and so desperately wanted a mouthful of water. Having a nurse swab your mouth is really not the same. Doing a swallowing check with them and giving the nurses permission to give them some fluids (even if they had to be weird and thick) completely transformed their day.

    Good luck with your studies! It's a very rewarding career!