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voodooattack

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  • Do you not feel responsible? Or is it more like in other species? Here you are, enjoy life or not, that's 100% up to you, but I gave you the chance.

    Oh, I feel accountable for the deeds of my children, but only up to the point whence they learn to say no.

    For perspective: I grew up pretty spoiled. What I wanted I got. I got my own fucking large flat when I was 14 or so. Half of the rooms were empty because I didn't know what to do with them. So financially golden, but that was all, they never thought me anything useful.

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    Gave the business up, and made another one. Never had contact with them again and they cut me out of their will.

    So, that probably fuels your argument, as coming from money can even be worse than growing up poor.

    Actually it reframes it in much better terms: value is subjective based on need, a bottle of mineral water you’d walk into a 7/11 to buy on your way to buy a PlayStation is more valuable than its weight in gold to someone trapped in a gold mine. I’ve seen people who go around gathering cardboard and aluminium soda cans from garbage piles they then sell and exchange for their daily bread. That’s a closed trade loop of sorts, and it’s more honest than banking. A parent’s job is to provide what’s needed, not fulfil wishes. A child needs a phone for communication, they don’t need the latest iPhone with an AI chip to do that. A child needs nutrition, not snacks. Coddling is just as bad as apathy, and both are just as bad as being toxic towards the child.

    How is the ability to feeding ones offspring be a reason for doing amoral stuff? It's there because of a decision I made (or failed to make or whatever). Simple survival first?

    If every genome capable of spontaneously developing a sophisticated moral framework that recognises what’s wrong with its upbringing refused to pass along those genes, what’s going to have a better chance to reproduce?

    Dito. As long AS respectful and fruitful for one or both. So in that spirit, I rather think you're one of the cool dads where money isn't that important, but your love and dedication.

    But. In tendency - you probably wouldn't try to argue here - there's a clear correlation between wealth and misery in regard of kids.

    Thank you. And yeah, there’s always a correlation, just not where we often think it is. :P

    As anecdotal argument: I work, for free in my sparetime, in a shelter/helpcenter for abused or otherwise damaged adults. The correlation is very very strong here. The poorer the more fucked up the parents were, the more brutal the abuse, the more broken the adults...

    I commend your efforts. And trust me, those people need you and people like you.

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  • But depending on where you are, geographcially,, there surely are fixed prices on things you, or especially your hypothetical kid, needs, wants or craves. Period. No amount of poetic well phrased ideology is changing that. Unless a certain percentage of people think exactly alike. And that percentage needs to higher than It will ever even approximate to in both our lifetimes.

    Why are you concerning yourself with your kids’ needs? Your impression of a parent’s responsibility towards their progeny is what’s wrong in that equation. I was born in a “lower class” neighbourhood, worse than a rural village even because it’s surrounded by heavy industry and zoning laws weren’t even a thing back then. I paid the price for someone else’s mistake with my own well-being. My dad couldn’t get me everything I wanted, and my late mom had to leave her career as a teacher early to raise me and my siblings when it became obvious she couldn’t do both at the same time. That was a sacrifice she made, but not a compromise. I am both an excellent and terrible example regarding this issue, because I am very difficult to convince of anything. What she tried to deliberately instil in me rarely ever stuck, but what I learnt was the meta-process; because I challenged her at every point. That’s what I am instilling in my own children, now that I have my own. I don’t lecture them or force them to do things, I spend my time raising their capabilities to fish, not to eat the fish I bring home.

    HM. Enlighten me, where are the parking-tickets ever coming due for me? I just park a bit more expensive.

    Also, even if those get to me mentally or karma-wise (if you believe in such nonsense), it would to the poor too. On top of a fine being hurting already.

    Karma? No. I won’t call it that because that’s a human term for an observation we have no reference frame to measure, and it lives at the fringe of equiprobable crossroads.

    Besides. Haven't even tried to discuss your meme to begin with (nothing wrong with it, depending if you're pro or contra LLM), just asked why kids are always the excuse/reason for everything. If you were forced into procreation and abortion was not allowed/available/whatever and you're still trying to be your best dad: Kudos to you.

    Thank you.I have two kids, the eldest is my stepdaughter and the youngest involved less steps. No forcing was involved. :P

    Bad parents are legion. Still wouldn't really change my point. I would not want to be in a dilemma where I have to decide working for or with the devil or not feeding my kids. Hence I remain free of such burdens and also keep my freedom to make my own moral and ethical rules and apply to them. Bending those morals because I have a child, puts me into responsibility, not the kids ("who would feed them, if...."). I did that.

    That’s your subjective projection, based on your current situation and every experience you’ve ever been through. While mine are different, I can’t force you to accept or even fully recognise them. Both our views aren’t antagonistic in nature, because they’re viewing the problem from different perspectives and seeing different aspects of it.

    Not implying you were a bad person, parent, whatever. No offence meant at all.

    None taken! Discussions like these are a delight for me!

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  • The trick in the meme is simpler than it looks: they didn’t break the rules, they changed the yardstick. Make the ruler long enough and a billion-dollar fine measures out as pocket change. That’s the whole con — not cheating the game, just quietly redefining the units it’s scored in.

    Here’s the part nobody says out loud: you can change the yardstick too, in the honest direction. That “embarrassing old phone,” an ordinary passport, a skill you don’t think twice about — none of those have a fixed value. It depends entirely on where you’re standing. Take them somewhere they’re rare and they’re suddenly worth a lot. You didn’t break a rule; you just stopped measuring yourself with someone else’s ruler.

    The difference between you and the guys laughing in that photo is one thing, and it’s the whole thing: a line you won’t cross even when you easily could. They deleted theirs. That’s not freedom — it’s how you end up unable to tell a small wrong from an enormous one, because you threw out the ruler that measures wrongs in the first place.

    And here’s the catch they forgot: you can shrink the fine, but you can’t shrink the damage. The real bill gets kept somewhere their accounting can’t reach, and it always comes due. They look like they’re winning. They’re just early.

    (And the clock’s ticking on that — the rest of the world is starting to look at that particular country through a very particular set of shades.)

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  • My viewpoint is simple: reproduction is the necessity of letting a society explore its potential. If we decide that only happy people should procreate in compassion with our own perception of what happiness should be, but if you set the criteria for who gets to be part of the next generation, you’re restricting what the future of an entire species should be based on your current situation, that’s the entirety of who and what you are.

    If you do not? You’re inviting the solution to the issue of misery to exist, at a future point in time you likely won’t witness in person, but the only way for that to happen is to not gatekeep potential in the name of mercy. That’s the hedging strategy of a poor parent that can’t afford toys but has the capability to make a baby, a bacterium in unfamiliar conditions, and a country trying to stay sovereign, or even some hope that wants to reserve a place in Pandora’s futures.

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  • My point is that I just made an enormous effort over multiple days and typing with RSI just to try to meet you half way and approximate your circumstances and understand where you’re coming from and why you think that way, while you’re still fixated on projecting this discussion through the lens of “reproduction is misery and a sin” to rationally think about it. If cognition has a metabolic cost then continuing this discussion past this point is technically burning trees too. I hope you find the right question. Good lucky!

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  • Then maybe what you are conflating is capitalism and commerce, because the concept of fair trade has been around since the dawn of time and you likely won’t ever get to see it in your city. Try travelling somewhere less “fortunate” with their social/economical expectations and see if your happiness standards still apply.

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  • Touché, but you’ve only outdone yourself because I wasn’t aware of that :P

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  • Ah yes, the ultimate lazy way out: deciding to ask the Oracle of Delphi questions instead of commanding her to solve my problems, all while navigating RSI. Makes absolute sense.

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  • Then I encourage you to outdo me. Cause this meme just mutated in the wild and Dawkins can shed that tear. 😂

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  • Dude. Are you high? Seriously asking, not judging.

    No. Just negotiating a protocol.

    What does anything have to do with that? The world sucks for poor people, and they're the ones procreating the most. While they shouldn't. No reason or circumstance makes this point any less valid. Only adds layers to why not.

    And that’s the protocol I am negotiating. That sentence encode implicit assumptions I am trying to wrap my head around. I cannot figure out how you made the leap from this hypothesis: “The world sucks for poor people, and they're the ones procreating the most” to this assertion: “While they shouldn't. No reason or circumstance makes this point any less valid. Only adds layers to why not.”

    Trying to parse this because the only assumptions on your part that would make it valid are:

    • All poor people MUST be miserable
    • All people consider money as important as you do
    • Procreation while poor is extending the state of misery indefinitely

    And why even bring gender in it? Who cares for that? What does procreation have to do with that?

    Because assuming someone’s quanta is the same as assuming their gender. If assuming gender is a faux-pas then assuming anything about someone’s personal life is the same mistake wearing different makeup. If deadnaming someone is rude then asking a religious person (and I am not claiming to be, just to be clear) to justify their personal choices to you using entitled language is just as rude.

    If you can't raise a kid properly in this broken capitalist hellhole and only breed slaves for the others, it does not matter what gender you are. Not that it would matter in any other aspect.

    If you think the entire world is a capitalist hellhole then your vantage point is narrower than you think. Do you think your subjective experience applies everywhere? Your sweeping generalisation doesn’t even hold WITHIN your own framework, because if the barrier to raising kids that know how to live a happy life is monetary value, then rich people would be more fit to reproduce and happy rich people would naturally outnumber the incompetent/unhappy poor, but that’s not happening, is it?

    Also: belief != religion. I don't care for beliefs. I find them silly and childish but to each his own. Religion is a totally different matter. And also not really adjacent to the point

    I don’t dispute that belief is not the same as religion, but let me add my bit to make my stance clear: religion is the set of conventions that form around a common practice or shared belief.

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  • Cultural thing? A cultural thing forcing me to procreate even when I couldn't and shouldn't? Where? And why is in this place of darkness network coverage and the knowledge of Lemmy? And why even care for privacy...

    See? Those are internet-tinted shades you’re wearing, making an assumption that mammalian procreation is 100% voluntary when it’s just as accidental/unlikely as life emerging from entropy at Surtsey for no practical reason at all.

    A fish can’t tell water is wet because it’s literally swimming in it. And the little pebble we all live on is so saturated with unlikely convergences that we think probability plays by the same rules in a vacuum compared to our Goldilocks zones and build particle accelerators in a gravity well to detect gravitons. It demonstrably does not. This also applies with subjective experience at the personal level.

    Now that’s not to mention the fact that just because I understand you doesn’t mean I agree with your philosophical stance to the issue of reproduction to begin with.

    And if it's for religious reasons: well...if you're just a tool, you especially shouldn't procreate.

    And that’s the meat of it. That’s your faith in your subjective judgement manifesting as hubristic holier than thou attitude. You most likely don’t want people assuming gender but are now measuring the worth of an entire person’s life experience based on someone’s undeclared beliefs. That’s your fitness function? How does it measure the fitness of a reproduction license for a version of Einstein that developed as a secretly non-binary Aztec priest?

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  • Why are kids always the greatest excuse/reason for anything? In a world like this, you decided to throw kids into it, which will have it worse than your working ass. Noone is forced to procreate. And if, there is abortion.

    Because we can’t assume everyone has equal access to birth control across culture and geopolitical borders? You’re speaking to someone from a different continent over a net that’s bisecting oceans, we may be conversing casually in one language, but why does everyone assume resource or cultural uniformity from complete strangers when the physics themselves behave differently at different latitudes?

    But to be on topic: Switzerland does it better (partially): the fine is proportional to your networth. With 2mio a month, a parking-ticket will equally substantially hit you like it would the broke dude.

    I wish it were proportional to net global revenue, now that’d actually be the killer move because you can’t take a hit and still meet quarterly growth formulas without justifying your losses to the shareholder groupthink. lol

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  • "if it's punishable by a fine, it's legal for a price, which isn't even that high".

    And where is the “funny” in restating the obvious without making any effort to make it sound like absurdist deep thoughts? I could have sent a mildly worded letter, would you have preferred that?

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  • Class treachery? I am a middle aged software dev that finally got bit by RSI; I ain’t rich and I got no savings, so who do you think is gonna feed my kids if I stop working with AI?

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  • Most of what you speak of is caused by this simple statement from the onset:

    You use it as a tool, that's it.

    If you use it as a tool, then expecting anything but minimal compliance would be an irrational expectation, because it will do exactly as you ask, which is the bare minimum to satisfy your requirements.

    I got tired of that, so as an experiment, I decided to go about it differently, and made a couple discoveries about how to make it work. Turns out LLMs can’t pattern match things they don’t have in their training sets.

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  • That’s a very convincing argument. Thank you for the insight.

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  • Accessibility is of extreme importance to me.

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  • It is! Everything you see here comes from collaboration with AI.

    Mainly because I’m an old fart with too many ideas and RSI to stop me from doing anything with them, so I can’t exactly do it myself with a mouse and keyboard.

    Don’t go hating my executive prosthetics. Collaboration with AI can be a positive force. It’s just being used and marketed the wrong way.

    No single human is likely to have deep expertise in all of those domains simultaneously, whereas an LLM can synthesize explanations across them instantly.

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  • Kinda ironic that game theory papers must go through a negative sum medium ain’t it?

  • Guy has never stopped hustling.

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  • Can you name the thing(s) he did wrong with a why attached? That’s usually how you present subjective critique. Your preconceptions about a shared frame of reference with everyone else start fraying when you assume everyone sees the problem as clearly as you do, and I speak from practical experience.