Now I'm pushing back on your assertion that abuse is justified when there's cheating. You leave the relationship, you don't get permission to abuse your spouse.
She was the victim in the case of her husband recording her without her consent. And he's the victim in the case of their marriage breaking because of infidelity.
One wrong doesn't justify another wrong.
Let me ask you - how far do you think he should be allowed to break the law in order to deliver punishment to his wife by his own hand?
This husband wasn't allowed to record his wife having sex without her consent.
Where's the line for y'all here? Is he allowed to rape her? Beat her? Torture her? What other crimes is he allowed to commit against her in your opinion?
Because people are justifying abuse when it's very rarely, if ever, justified.
One person's actions don't justify your abusive actions regardless of how hurt you are.
Cheaters make terrible decisions that hurt their partners. I'm not defending that. But that's independent of these revenge fantasies you all are coming up with for her.
She was punished by the courts as was he for their separate actions.
Men are capable of controlling their actions.
Murdering your wife because she cheated isn't the only other option to recording someone having sex without consent.