Learning to never be in view of the letterbox, that maybe having friends over isn't okay and then letting them go as they quickly learn you can never reciprocate a house invite, avoiding the neighbours eyes, glancing wearily at each car that drives past, diving into books because anything else is too loud, ...
I can go on
Slice the pepper thin and curl each strip as a halo around some of the barley corns. Use honey or ketchup to hold shape, and then throw into the saucepan with butter, until crisp. Douse with water. Then open up a packet of crisps and dump the lot inside, shaking throughly. Don't do this too long or the plastic/foil might melt/burn. Serve on a plate with chopsticks