That's not how feeds work. I don't want to accidentally see that stuff. So I value sites that censor. Ergo, it has value to some and isn't always better.
If I want to paint apples, and you want a painting of pears, it's not ableist for me to tell you no. It's not ablist to iterate out your possible options for getting a pear painting either. And that's what he's done.
Now, the entire painting profession might be ableist in that there are certainly barriers to entry. But it's not a single artist's responsibility to fix painting as a whole.
My point is, if you truly think the situation with raync is ableist, help develop tools so that more people can program. Enable people to program. Don't just shout down the guy who said "go program". That doesn't help.
So you have wireguard connecting to the VPS and a port open on the VPS for the jellyfin client to connect to?