I think that a good chunk of the selfhosted community is "sole IT guy at a tiny company". This is great for that, since having to update desktop software in twenty places sucks.
I'm arguing that there IS clear evidence otherwise. The fact that they're not acting in a way that is consistent with the belief that life begins at conception is a problem. And saying that they don't understand their own belief is much nicer than saying that they're horrible people who let death happen when they could have stopped it.
And I think the point of these discussions is to exactly fix your final point. To iron out the inconsistencies and find the truth.
They don't believe that. They think they believe that, but they don't. The frozen embryo in the fire question proves this. The fact that they aren't actively killing abortion doctors proves this.
No, that phrase means "this situation is hopeless because the person is incapable of change". You can't turn a fly into a butterfly, no matter how hard you try.
Huh .. I never noticed. Probably because my phone OS never failed to boot, requiring me to pull data off the HDD directly.