I won't lie, I don't think we'll ever totally agree. I'm getting the gist that we fundamentally have a different understanding of the human race.
You're holding people to your own standards, which is admirable because you clearly have your head on straight. I just view people as generally more base and malleable. Animals that react to the stimulus they're given and environment they're put in.
It's why propaganda can work with simple repetition; it's why ancient cultures and atrocities feel so alien; it's why there's a natural evolutionary drift toward tribalism.
From that: this is a generation being left behind educationally, economically, and socially. They know their quality of life is regressing but don't know why. They're an audience searching for clear answers.
They're also the only humans in history to spend more of their formative adolescence on screen time than on other traditional activities.
So they're starting on the back foot and getting unprecedented exposure to privately operated, centralized media sources. It follows that whoever owns those platforms (or pays enough) can selectively amplify any narrative they want to great effect.
It would have been just as feasible to push their politics to the left as right. If you look at who operates these platforms you'll find, unsurprisingly, its right wing media moguls. The capitalists with the capital and mechanisms to spread their gospel have done so.
So at the end of the day I think it is reasonable to scold a person who you know should have better media literacy. I just don't think it makes any sense to extend that to an entire voting block. Its more productive to direct that effort toward the root of the problem, the people pushing the content.
On the other hand, Trump is already flaunting his ability to choke state resistance by withholding federal funding.
Outrageously unconstitutional but he already isn't following the courts anyway. I wonder if there's any way for states to work around that, since most blue states are net negative on federal funds.
Just stop paying up because he won't comply with the freeze? Then use those funds to paper over the deficit?