Husband, Father, IT Pro, military service.
Don't assume, ask. Don't assume questions are statements or accusations.
I'd rather talk about difficult and nuanced topics in personal one on one situations over espresso or beer. Such discussion is very difficult in Internet written form.
I believe everyone should be treated with dignity and respect, but that doesn't mean I agree with everything or everyone.
I have conservative and progressive views. I believe people can be both.