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rabber

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  • Is it common after a breakup to lose every mutual friend you had?

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  • I've never hurt anyone before. That's a really cruel comment

    I guess it answers my question though. If the right person makes an accusation like that you can lose everything. And that's why I'll probably never get close to anyone ever again

    Yeah my history is public and I'm proud of that comment because it wasn't easy to write. I was heavily abused for years and the only person who cared and convinced me to get out was my sister.

  • Is it common after a breakup to lose every mutual friend you had?

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  • All knew me first, most since childhood

  • Is it common after a breakup to lose every mutual friend you had?

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  • Yeah same situation, but even people who knew me for 20 years shouldn't have bought into that nonsense especially knowing the history of the relationship

    I guess there's nothing you can really do to ever come back from this if this is the root problem. Just my word vs hers and she's expert level manipulator

    Edit: I didn't come here to argue with anyone. But sure, tag me as "probably a rapist" and don't talk to me. I'm getting used to it. Lol

  • What cities have bad vibes or just feel "off"?

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  • My gf moved here less than a year ago from mainland and she can't believe how strange and different people are on the island compared. There's also that weird group of people who never seem to leave victoria and they have such an incredibly narrow minded view of everything. My manager at work was born in victoria and the furthest place he's been on the island is point no point. Wtf.

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  • It's just NYC without any sort of character. Concrete buildings and dystopian. I just don't like being there.

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  • I'm in Victoria, too. 8 years here and not much of a friend group even with such like minded people at work.

    I feel like Victoria is maybe the best city in all of NA but man the vibes here are strange. Go out west into the woods and it just gets weirder. I have stories and those woods breathe evil I swear.

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  • I lived in Calgary while I went to college and I made so many friends with zero effort. I thought that the huge transient population was kind of cool. I live on vancouver island now and connecting with people here is almost impossible by comparison

  • What cities have bad vibes or just feel "off"?

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  • Do you have any recommended reading?

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  • Relevant but I'm currently going down this Bricks & Minifigs vs Ben rabbit hole and wow these mormons are creepy as fuck.

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  • You may also enjoy reading about Ocean Shores WA. It's like this but it's sinking and then sun doesn't really shine lol

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  • Why Calgary? One of the nicest large cities I've spent time in.

    Stampede is bad energy though.

    What about Deadmonton, especially the last 10 years? It's like a giant liminal space

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  • I love Belgium but Brussels is alarmingly lame

  • Why Trump Lost. The president failed to deliver on his Iran bluster, and in the end fooled only himself.

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  • I mean he made a fuck ton of money and so did his family which is all that matters to him

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    whats going on with womensstuff?

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  • We care about missing indigenous women, it's actually a huge industry here now. No mention of the men tho.

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    whats going on with womensstuff?

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  • 4 times more missing indigenous men than women but nobody cares or talks about it.

    You are so confidently incorrect with everything you say that it's pretty infuriating at this point.

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    whats going on with womensstuff?

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  • I care. As do most Canadians. You really do live in fantasy land. Go back to reddit please

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    whats going on with womensstuff?

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  • Yeah they do. Did you read my comment? I was simply accused of rape and every single person abandoned me

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    whats going on with womensstuff?

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  • I was with a narcissistic woman for 10 years who tried to kill me multiple times, stole everything from me including all my friends, my computers, my guitars, kicked me out of my own apartment and I was homeless for a month (and then almkst lost my career for sleeping in my office), told everyone I know that I'm a violent rapist, bunch of other fun stuff that makes me permanently afraid of getting close to women

    I'm a man though so you don't give a shit lol. Literally nobody gave a shit except my parents and sister, to this day

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  • OK so you do admit bears are scary. Why are you avoiding them? Lol

    I'm actually on board with what you're saying for once.

    That said I've been abused by a woman before in arguably worse ways than what you describe and the cool part is that nobody cared or believed me

    Maybe all humans are just terrible? That's what I think.