depending on your budget, consider the MNT Reform, a notebook computer designed to be as repairable as you can possibly imagine. Every plastic part is 3d-printable, every circuitboard is open source, and it uses off-the-shelf parts for its keyboard, batteries, and screen. really its only downsides are the entry price (around $1600) and the fact that it relies on a relatively low-power SOC (system on chip) for CPU, GPU, and RAM.
disclaimer: I don't have one myself (yet) but I'm keeping an eye on them because it looks like an incredible hobby computer
When dating people, I often ask "name a book that's not Harry Potter". Doesn't even have to be one you've read. Pick any book at all (other than Harry Potter) and tell me why you thought of it.
I'm not gatekeeping people who do or don't read books, and i don't care if it's sci fi, fantasy, fanfic, nonfic, whatever. what i do care about is that you are aware of at least one book and care enough to remember what it's about. That's a low bar, but not as low as you might think.
The "no Harry Potter" clause isn't specifically due to jkr being a terf (although that too), but because it's such an overused answer. Yeah, I do remember the books that were so popular that they had their own brand of jelly beans. I have run out of things to say about them. Pick literally anything else.