The problem with managing replication outside of PVE is ‘what do you do when you have to move the VM/CT to another node?’ Are you going to move the conf file manually? It’s too much manual work.
Let PVE manage all of the replication. Use Sanoid for stuff that isn’t managed by Proxmox.
This is really more of a home networking issue than anything having to do with self-hosting. Please consider posting this in one of the many Lemmy home networking communities.
You know what? Fuck you and your ‘fascist’ label. Fascists are those that wholesale commit genocide, which is what abortion is. Fuck you for butting in where your response added no value and only showed your ass.
While this post is in support of a self-hosting platform, the request itself is storage-related. I would recommend that you reach out to https://lemmy.world/c/zfs or https://discourse.practicalzfs.com.