still better than fake "i have prepared every port that anyone has ever seen for breakfast this morning, but the kids are only grabbing one measly USB C toast as they head out with friends"
i am in the same boat, i am weirdly ashamed to admit? i mean not that i dont admit it freely with anyone who will listen, but just, all it took was that one little remark and my trust was irrevocably broken, and i was getting ready to bring my entire little family unit over into that ecosystem.
instead i went with posteo for email and self hosted everything else
heck yeah! one of my earliest plunders on the sea's due to how infamous it was.
I don't remember being particularly disturbed by it at the time, but afterwards I was also into rottendotcom and stuff like that. But these days I am no longer seeking that sort of thing so it wouldn't surprise me if I didn't tolerate it as well.