Theres so much I end up handling manually with my UDM that at this point i might rather just install open source routing software on it atp. I don't even use the web UI for wireguard because I can't even specify the allowed IPs for a connection.
I'm not entirely sure how I want to run my ad blocking yet. I left adblocking on for the wifi subnet because I don't mind it there, and I have ublock origin on my PC. I might use PiHole but my DNS on my network is actually managed by FreeIPA so making sure everything works properly there is paramount. I'm pretty sure I can do that easily but I need to test it to make sure my forward zones work as expected and nothing breaks.
Yeah I found some documentation from Ubiquiti afterwards that said all DNS requests would get proxied, although it didn't mention it wouldn't forward dynamic updates.
at least with john wick it's a little more believable that the majority of assassins for a super secretive and exclusive international crime syndicate would have armor in their vehicles.
just leave them in place (within reason). your chickens probably loved the leaves because a lot of native bugs use dead leaves to lay their eggs; both mowing the leaves and giving them to the chickens probably killed a lottttt of bugs. and it removes important nutrients from your homes immediate surrounding ecosystem. you'll save butterflies and fireflies!
I actually have a hybrid setup. My public DNS and my mail server are in the cloud as those are too important to risk going down. I also have a FreeIPA replica in the cloud to help manage them. Then I set basically everything else up in my homelab because I don't care if roundcube goes down so long as IMAP and SMTP still work.
Definitely hang out with people and try to have fun, it'll help take your mind off things and begin to remind you who you are outside of the relationship.
But I'm curious why going on a walk with a friend in nature would be cheating? Hanging out alone with someone of the gender(s) you're attracted to isn't cheating. While everyone has different definitions of cheating I think most would agree that violating your partner's boundaries around sexual, emotional, or romantic intimacy is usually what constitutes cheating; hanging out with a friend in a purely platonic way isn't cheating and if your partner made you think so that's a bit of a red flag in my opinion.
Exist in and feel those emotions, and then let them go as much as you can. As others have said, time will heal this wound. Don't run into the arms of someone else or try to numb this pain; it's important you feel it. Rushing into another relationship will only bury this pain by putting you in an unhealthy situation; numbing it will only lead to bad decisions and possible substance abuse. Let yourself feel this way, as horrible as it feels, and understand that it won't be forever.
You will be okay, and to be honest you will probably be more than okay. In a period that seems impossibly long now but laughably short at the end of this, you will become a better, stronger, and healthier person with a greater capacity to love and the wisdom of who better to give that love to. It is difficult, but you will survive. And then you will thrive. Love yourself and ride this out. You got this.
In elementary/middle school at a small Catholic school in a progressive major North American city, it was a week or two where we got some workbooks and were separated by sex (this was as gender discussions were beginning to hit the mainstream). They were fine, they were certainly informative and educational and didn't lie. I do recall them focusing on abstinence but it was mostly about the biology and family planning iirc.
I then went to the largest public high school in my city. Freshman year we had a health class and an entire unit was focused on sexual health. We learned about different contraceptive methods and their efficacy, STIs (had to do group presentations on them), the biology and in/outs of reproduction, sexual and gender orientation (iirc), the legality of things and actions and some stuff about consent (as a kink practitioner and queer person, I would've liked more but it's probably a lot more than most have ever learned about consent), and things along those lines. We were also given resources and our teacher was super nice and helpful about this stuff.
We also learned about drugs, the different types of drugs, their effects, withdrawals, and risks. It was municipally mandated, if not state mandated, educational content so it was standardized at least across the city, but I kinda doubt it's taught as equitably as it was in my high school. But it was incredibly comprehensive and extremely educational. While I still made a lot of mistakes as a dumb horny teenager, did things i shouldn't have, and got hurt/hurt people by being a dumb horny teenager (no SA/SH), it prepared me very well for my experiences and set me up to be the safe and respectful person I am today (who knows how to safely disrespect you when you ask nicely <3)
yeah owning one alone is unlikely to get you caught, and you can probably come up with excuses ("it's just an SDR not a jammer!") but they're extremely heavily restricted over here.
radio jammers like this are federally illegal in the US and possession of one is a massive felony. That's if anyone notices and you get caught, but just a heads up.
Theres so much I end up handling manually with my UDM that at this point i might rather just install open source routing software on it atp. I don't even use the web UI for wireguard because I can't even specify the allowed IPs for a connection.