Also, length is most of what matters. A full length sentence in lowercase with easy to type finger/key flow for pw manager master, and don't know a single other password. Can someone correct me if I'm wrong?
Honest question.. cis person of whatever preference dates trans person of whatever gender... Is that not always identified as two queer people in a queer relationship? E. G., if a cis straight presenting guy dates a trans woman, for their first time, stepping out of norms, are they not learning they're queer?
I've thought the same about swingers, enm, etc that are otherwise straight cis couples.. they're literally "queer" per se in that they are atypical or non-normative.
Please inform me either academically or practically, I'd appreciate either.
I grew up progressive and we said all the dumb racist shit too. And then my mom beat the shit out of me in front of the neighborhood as a small child. I didn't say racist shit after that. Pretty sure nobody did. I lived in a place where "you see what happens??" was common parenting. One to many public beatings and we all learned to stfu and know our role.
I know. And I get it. And I'm old and wise enough to know I don't know anything about anything.
Also, I know I'm as wistful of my youthful times as my great grandfather probably was, but the world today vs the 80s/early 90s... The Internet thing is an epoch shift. It's crazy that our grandparents grew up without planes in the sky and we're expected to navigate cable news, yes, I get that.
But to go from.. the world.. to.. the world plus the globally interconnected virtual world.. is fucking nuts. I had lots of screens. I wrote code on a CRT in 88 and fucked with my share of bunny ears or played Civ 1 for entire school breaks. It's not just screens. The library of Alexandria x a million in our pockets, everyone everywhere all the times accessible to one another, constant surveillance from walking down the block to our most private digital thought, all of it capitalized and personalized to perfection to encourage obsession and consumption and spending.
I have one of the rare boomer parents, that for however crazy she is, she's flat out said, "I understand it's impossible to get a mortgage and get started these days. I don't understand how kids go to college and start careers." Vs "but we did more with less. Fuck off."
These are actually different times. Things were less anxious and bombarding and all consuming.
Growing up, these were the vinyls of my dad's I got excited about. I had my Zepp and Pearl Jam tapes but this wasn't what I'd be buying at J&R or Sam Goody, so it was a treat.
Sidenote: we went to Wayne's World in theaters on a Cub Scouts trip (different era...) for some reason. We came home and I remember not even completely on the door raving about this awesome song from the beginning of the movie. Somehow he knows wtf I'm on about, and beckons me to the record player in the den, puts on Night at the Opera and blows my mind. First time actually listening to records with the old man, not just having them on and me also existing.
I must be Peacemaker, I missed that