Maybe one solution is to have strong rules and moderation about personal attacks. But then it’s the moderators that will get bullied for censorship and end up crucified on the power tripping bastard community.
That's why I'm always a bit reluctant to have an infographic with Mastodon and Lemmy fully connected. Sure, it's possible to interact, but it's not ideal.
Having another one with Lemmy, Mbin and Piefed servers could be better
!instance_assistant@lemmy.ca, not sure if the project is still updated