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YappyMonotheist

@ ArgumentativeMonotheist @lemmy.world

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Trying my hardest to be civil in this uncivilised world.

  • When other countries say Americans are loud, what does this mean?

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  • Anglo Saxons are loud and have main character syndrome, then? 😅 I have a feeling Aussies don't, and most Americans I've met have actually been sort of ashamed of saying they're from the States and overall sweet, lol, so the world might be healing.

  • What would you do if you found out your dad changed his name and went no-contact with his family years ago, before you were even born?

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  • If he was a good father and person overall, I would assume he had valid reasons. If I were less emotionally stable and more impulsive, I might have a little angry rant before reaching that realization.

  • Everyone in the world now has the same values and morals you do; how does the world change?

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  • It would become remarkably better, assuming they also don't inherit my attachment issues, childhood trauma, and compromised emotional management (unless, of course, they also inherited my intelligence and knowledge, and were all lucky enough somehow to find a loving and patient partner, lol). Since they would all be their own persons with their own interests, strengths and weaknesses, it would be alright, but a world with just me in all ways would be a boring, gray disaster. 🙃😅

  • On what specific episode does your favorite "I swear it eventually gets really good" television show actually start turning around?

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  • I'm more of a "it's an excellent game but it only gets going 5-8 hours in" guy, and the first game that comes to mind in this category is Persona 3 (all versions). I can't do TV shows unless they're heavy on the information load/words per minute (The Thick of it, for example), else my mind starts drifting away. 🙃

  • Considering that it's inevitable for that to happen, What will happen when most people stop talking beyond necessary?

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  • Could you rephrase it? I'm slightly confused. Unless they're neurodivergent/mentally ill/Finnish(?), people love to socialize and yapping is a big part of that. Or do you think "eventually" people will just give monosyllabic answers when talked to and barely interact? Why?

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  • Woah, now that's a perk I'd love to have, especially when rent is like a third of my paycheck!

    In my case, I have a lot of free time during my shifts so I've been able to study and finish my uni assignments at work. 👍

  • Am I broken, or am I saying the quiet part out loud?

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  • Your mind is warped by nonsense and wind. We're not talking ideology here, not OP nor anyone else. Btw, are you healthy heterosexual man post puberty? You might not understand what is truly being discussed here, which is biology and its psychosocial consequences.

  • Am I broken, or am I saying the quiet part out loud?

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  • Two very good points, professor! 👌

  • Am I broken, or am I saying the quiet part out loud?

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  • You misread me or I didn't express myself correctly: all the horny goes into your partner and you're kinda zen mode more often than not. There's probably some "love chemicals" involved too, idk. As someone who has had enough casual (and paid 🫣) sex to know how empty it can be, love making in earnest is just a different, more fulfilling experience in all ways.

  • Am I broken, or am I saying the quiet part out loud?

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  • On the self release Vs sex aspect: cumming from wanking and cumming from fucking are two very different experiences, the latter being much more pleasurable and also kinda draining your desire for longer. TMI: If my wife's not around I can probably go for three wanks a day, but she kills for me half a day at least if not more, lol. So yeah, you're not out in the world thinking about it.

  • Am I broken, or am I saying the quiet part out loud?

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  • Which part did you find untrue or disagree with? That testosterone increases libido and has a complex, very impactful role in male sexual function? That men (everyone but we're talking about OP, a horny young man) must control their urges not to hurt anyone? Or that being in love, in a committed relationship with someone you respect and value, will make you less horny?

  • Am I broken, or am I saying the quiet part out loud?

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  • If you're a heterosexual man you're probably gonna find most/a good chunk of women until they're in their 40s attractive to very attractive and have some natural bodily reaction to it. That's just how it is, that's how we became billions. A man must control his horny and his angry, that's our responsibility, at the very least their expressions, in order to remain moral and prosocial. One thing I can say is that, if you're in love and getting busy often with your one and only, you stop being so sexually obsessed with other women, in a very deep and perhaps biological level. That's what I've found out at least, and I've been with my lady for a little over a decade now and all of my friends except two very good lads are women. I've never crossed a boundary nor have I even wanted to. 🤷👍

    So, don't worry, you're just a horny young (late 20s is young) man because of the hormones, if anything it's healthy, it's how our ancestors had to be to get out of the caves. Focus on love, find your one and it'll kinda go away. ✌️

  • What's your favorite movie?

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  • It was unexpectedly very wholesome and philosophical.

  • What's your favorite movie?

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  • Rocky (1976) and When Harry Met Sally (1989) are my favourite movies, and I prefer the former only a little bit more than the latter. I'm a sentimental man. 🤷

    I would say the #3 spot belongs to either Arrival (2016), The Sixth Sense (1999), Se7en (1996), Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy (2011), or The Secret in Their Eyes ("El Secreto de Sus Ojos", 2009). #4 is both Kung Fu Panda 1 and 2, and #5 is probably too large to enumerate here, lol.

  • What are some stereotypes you know of for weird groups you're a part of?

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  • Psychology is a field that, at least in recent years (France and the UK, IME), leans heavily female. I wonder why, although the male urge to be "self-reliant" sometimes to the point of self harm might play a part. Not that I'm complaining, but my masters had a crazy ratio (3 guys to 25+ women) and all but one teacher were women as well, lol.

  • Why do you prefer the Fediverse over other Social Media?

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  • If I'm gonna be mad at people's half-baked, ignorant takes, I'd rather it were e-strangers instead of people I know?

    Also, the other alternative for online discussion is Reddit and that's a Western imperialist propaganda mouthpiece/controlled environment that was literally managed by the Epstein folk, so you can imagine how I and anyone with a modicum of sanity and morality had to leave as it became unbearable.

  • Do you sleep with noise?

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  • Nooo, just weird videos on YT, lol. Let me show you a classic, "Welcome to the real world" (misspelled in the video), an introduction to the concave earth """theory""": https://youtu.be/WLnSRWaPu3I

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  • Shitty Netflix/Hollywood "blockbuster" movies. Just don't watch them... There's a laaaaarge collection of classics you can watch, get started on that instead.

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    Jody Brown who is said to have drowned in a canal recently. Why do you think the articles didn't mention what prevented her from standing up? Canals in the UK are only 3-4 ft deep.

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  • Hey man you gotta stop, you're having an episode.