If you don’t want to misgender them by using the wrong pronouns just ask them for the correct ones. And addressing them by their chosen name is the bare minimum.
Speaking for myself (as I can't speak for everyone) I wouldn't mind compliments on my looks/clothes etc but certainly not in reference to my transition, that's a no-go. Especially if other people (doubly so for strangers) are in earshot, I don't want them to know if they haven't caught up on it already. There is always the chance that I pass for them and I don't want that ruined, if I want to tell them I'm trans I can do that myself on my own terms.
I've never smoked and I don't ever plan to (it can lessen the effect of HRT) but I do drink alcohol occasionally. Meaning I drink maybe one cocktail or longdrink every two or three months.
Do you have to enable the feature first? Because I'm on v141 and I don't see this feature. Complaining about a useless and draining feature that you yourself enabled is a special kind of stupid tbh.
The most recent and the most tears producing video game I played was The Cosmic Wheel Sisterhood when you meet the trans woman and she transforms into her witch-self 😭
If you don’t want to misgender them by using the wrong pronouns just ask them for the correct ones. And addressing them by their chosen name is the bare minimum.