there's a secret third option "I don't know if I can do something about it, I keep trying different things, and things keep failing through and going wrong, and I keep trying again and getting up hope, and I keep failing and being disappointed, but should i try other things? but wait maybe this'll work, that's exciting! But what if it doesn't work like everything else... aaaaaaa I'm stressed"
It's not "circumcision", that's a euphemism, it's genital mutilation. Also it makes it more complicated to get a vaginoplasty since there isn't as much tissue available
They should make it illegal
It "going out of fashion" didn't stop my Jewish parents in the UK mutilating me