The more feminine I have become, the more acceptable it is for me to show emotional vulnerability. The more people genuinely listen to me and not treat me like a disgusting animal they are hesitantly entertaining until they can get away.
When I lived as a cis man not even my friends wanted to hear it, and they are good people.
When a man cries in front of his partner for the first time, usually a switch will flip, and that partner will never look at you the same way again. Being vulnerable with even your closest relationships often feels like a mistake.
Men don't talk about their feelings because almost nobody in society has empathy for others, especially if you are more masculine, especially if you "look scary".
The experience being a man is isolating and dehumanizing by default.
Probably because most of these spaces exist to push whatever narrative the admins and mods who own it want, and open conversation about these topics might result in some people learning about the world around them and making their own decisions.
Notice how many accounts appeared overnight from the Venezuela shit pretending a war was inevitable? Those are the accounts these spaces exist to enable.
This is all assuming we have free and fair elections which we absolutely don't anymore, from gerrymandering to the electoral college to shoddy infrastructure, to rouge poll workers who were told to occupy the positions by a sitting president.
The only justice that happens in this country anymore is vigilante