My grandfather is 97 and in a nursing home. He can't do anything by himself anymore, including using the TV remote. So sometimes when family visits, he's just sitting there with absolutely nothing going on. He could look out the window and watch the birds, but I don't think that interests him. I'm OK with just my thoughts, but only if I'm thinking about something in the future (like a painting I want to make). I don't know if I could handle his life. He seems to be content as long as he's not in pain.
I have chronic health issues so I sometimes have to say no to invites, but I always appreciate being asked. Which is why I always go out of my way to invite someone even if I think they're likely to say no. It feels good to know you're wanted.
Idk but if you have a Playlist, please share it.