Sometimes ya gotta put your entire self out there, right from the jump... see what happens
Week 2 of our relationship: I drank too much with her, took a bath while she slept (I'm at her apartment), woke up in a cold bath to her peeing and asking if I'm good
Over 10 years in now: I somehow love her more everyday and get to grow with my best friend. The "bath incident" still comes up as a funny "how we met" story
I'm not the same guy, but I also can't say if it's a frequent part of the dating scene. My wife and I were both bad at dating, we just got lucky finding each other. I'd be screwed if I had to date again lol