If full time Walmart employees need government assistance programs to afford food and pay their rent, is it not Walmart who is leaning on government assistance?
If full time Walmart employees need government assistance programs to afford food and pay their rent, is it not Walmart who is leaning on government assistance?
I think the act of not accepting the phone call tells you everything about him. He isn't interested in you for a reason he's not proud of or he truly thinks nothing of you and is incredibly selfish. It's normal to feel all of those ways about a perceived rejection, but in time you'll easily see that anyone who sees no need to explain something about you to you is a crappy mate anyways.
Just my suspicion is that he was actively pursuing more than just you and your hesitency was making the completion of your summary difficult for him. This could be misogyny about a perceived imbalance in power dynamics, but just keep in mind, again, that someone who feels chivalry is an important 2 way street on a literal first date isn't trying that hard. You will find guys far more there for you; in presence, respect, empathy, and patience.
The long term relationship switching to open to short sounds like he's still tuning his wants and needs, and that's personal to him. You're only responsible for changing your bad decisions in the relationship, which honestly after 1 day there's not much to analyze. Just be happy, as you will be eventually, that he didn't waste more of your time in this earth hiding information from you the way he did by not accepting the call.