"Would you like to fill out a customer satisfaction survey to rate this dating experience?" :D
I try to avoid those relationship guru videos, it feels like a mix of half understood psychology and some one size fits all voodoo. Idk, do you know any good ones that don't fall into that trap?
It's been a while since I was in such an argument that someone questioned my character. Most honest feedback so far was relatives. But I behave very different with someone I have been knowing my whole life and someone I just met. Or worse, feel attracted to. Damn brain chemicals.
There is, however, a big difference between (let's say) "you smell and look at your feet too much" and "you command people around and treat people as inferior", for example
Dogs are not humans. Dogs do pick up body language and general vibes, but dogs don't understand speech, and dogs generally don't care if you are not a threat, bring food, play, or smell interesting.
Me being whatever I am does not change the validity of the question. Many presumably neurotypical people could really do with some honest mirror of how they come across. Yet the presumably on-average-neurotypical peers don't say anything out of politeness or other reasons.
And I ask here for the same reason I don't ask IRL friends: we are all anonymous strangers here, nobody knows me enough to not tell me my idea is stupid, and I don't know anyone enough to be offended by being told it is stupid.
I hope I am a decent person. But even a decent person can be annoying, intimidating, harsh, closed off etc, right? I've seen it often enough in others.
Huh, interesting. To be fair, I seem to fall into a whole different "mode" when presenting. Once I stand up and the adrenaline kicks in, I basically run on autopilot. I've been told I'm quite good at bullshitting my way through, so at least that's something.
Interesting idea! I am not sure if I want to video-analyse me talking about the weather, and it kind of seems creepy to recod random interactions. But I'll try to keep this in mind if I happen to be in a context that gets recorded anyway.
I think I'd rather know, if I don't like how I behave, I can make steps to change it. If I don't, I'll be stuck telling the same three unfunny jokes to people :D
Yeah, right?! I catch myself debating if I should tell a friend of mine that he smells sweaty or if I shouldn't, and I can only imagine other people have similar considerations.
A microsd card with the plans for a fusion reactor, a step by step manual of how to achieve world peace and utopia, and enough shitcoins and dubious patent claims to overthrow the economy if needed. Plus all the Epstein files, the truth about JFK and all the dirty laundry of all world leaders. Throw in some nuclear access codes of various countries for good measure. Covered in Epoxy. Oh, and I want my whole body to be delivered to my family, stomach contents included.
Tbh, it has been a while and maybe I am confusing it with another city. But it just felt... like nothing special. No reason to be there. Mediocre at best, lame at worst. Big ugly cities usually have a thriving subculture, or surviving there is an experience by itself at least. But it just felt like the city equivalent of the word "meh"
Cheap Chinese Amazfit Neo. Basically a fitness tracker with a Casio-like look.
The one advice is, use gadgetbridge (https://gadgetbridge.org/). Replaces the shitty bloated spyware vendor app with something that does not sell your sleep pattern to the highest bidder. Downside, of course, is that you lose features and not every watch is compatible (or in different states of compatibility)
The best decision in my life was to get a trade/industrial degree after school. I met some great people, I met some horrible people, and most importantly, it taught me to show up every morning with a clean T-shirt and an appropriate greeting. Sounds banal, but isn't.
Then I went to college, out of a mix of "I don't want to do this for 40 years" and no good offers in my region. But I still wonder how I would have ended up if I didn't go. I was happiest in tech support, believe it or not. We were pretty free in what we did as long as the tickets were solved. If the queue was zero, nobody asked where you were on a Friday afternoon. Good times.
"Would you like to fill out a customer satisfaction survey to rate this dating experience?" :D
I try to avoid those relationship guru videos, it feels like a mix of half understood psychology and some one size fits all voodoo. Idk, do you know any good ones that don't fall into that trap?
It's been a while since I was in such an argument that someone questioned my character. Most honest feedback so far was relatives. But I behave very different with someone I have been knowing my whole life and someone I just met. Or worse, feel attracted to. Damn brain chemicals.