Literotica.com is a pretty safe and minimalist place to go. You may even be able to still sideload their old app, though not sure if its up to date or if not. Enter at your own risk and learn the check the story codes if they are present BEFORE you start reading a story. For your own health and sanity.
Its not all gonna be to your liking but the guy who runs it got sick of there being tons of good music that he was never allowed to play on the radio station he worked at as a dj for 10 years so he quit and started his own thing.
He's had some setbacks but the guys whole thing is new music, 36 months or newer. Been introduced to some really good stuff I never would have heard of if I hadn't been a fan of his when he was still the afternoon guy on 91.3 theZone out of Victoria bc
Here's a Spotify playlist to give you an idea
The Datsuns, Cancer Bats, Spiritbox, Wolf Alice, Slomosa, Rival Sons, Tiger cub. All bands I discovered because of this project
It's probably more directly related to the system of getting the help you need with having to sacrifice a significant portion of the money you make that needs to go elsewhere.
And it's a history of it from one generation to the next so there's not good male role models in most people's lives for mental health.
It's not like it's some magic thing to go see a therapist and all your problems will be fixed. It can take a long time and a lot of trial and error to find someone you feel comfortable speaking to
Yes toxic masculinity is a problem, but your comment doesnt really acknowledge the difficulty of breaking that cycle. Not a very helpful and kind of alienating to anyone who needs help and isn't from a background that creates good outcomes.
It's still the same same as it was almost 30 years ago and is an example of both how websites used to look and also shows how much more functional things used to be when implemented well, inspite of modern aesthetic evolutions
Literotica.com is a pretty safe and minimalist place to go. You may even be able to still sideload their old app, though not sure if its up to date or if not. Enter at your own risk and learn the check the story codes if they are present BEFORE you start reading a story. For your own health and sanity.
You could also search for clitorides awards too