Am also atheist, I have an extreme...distaste for religion in general. There are some that I find easier to mesh with, very dependent on the person in particular. But I have some long married friends with vastly different religious views and they work out somehow.
I don't think the weird pronouns or identities like "I'm a blue black dragon born in Azeroth" make any sense to me whatsoever but it takes me zero effort to use whatever the person prefers so even if it doesn't make sense to me I'd rather not go out of my way to make a person sad, especially someone who I have no idea what they're going through in their own lives. We all got our own shit and the world would be a better place if people could just not be assholes to each other about the little things.
I didn't block hexbear until a few months after joining and personally experiencing all the toxic vitriol that comes from there. They REALLY stick out. .ml hasn't been bad enough to where I can see a post and immediately go "oh yep that's from .ml" like hexbear
.ml is another of the tankie triad instances that are typically blocked for context. On lemme.ee for their loose defederation policies and I'll be moving to .zip for the same, but I still block hexbear at the least because of how horrible those people are, rather bang my head against a wall than entertain that cess pool
I lucked out into being born 5'10, not tall enough to need special clothes, but short enough so the shallow "6ft or nothing" women self filter themselves and I don't have to deal with them myself. I had a buddy who was 5'4ish who was an absolute disgusting human being but always blamed being alone on his height, also have a buddy who 5'2ish and married to an absolutely wonderful woman
I once fell asleep with a laptop on my lap that had a horrible heat sink and would basically turn itself off every half hour. My legs were crossed when I fell asleep and my heel was right up against the vent.. Woke up with the laptop still on. Confused. And then PAIN. It has used my heel as a heat sink. MASSIVE burn, horrible pain, like four inch blister, still have the scar twenty years later. Had to wear flip flops for like a month shudder
Like 4 and a half is average I'm pretty sure. Lemme Google. Okay Google says 5.1 but close enough I guess. It's WAY less than porn obviously and WAY less than women think. I have a strong hunch that this is because most men they've been with have lied about their size so to them a 4" is a 6" is an 8" etc. There was this green text I saw posted here today/yesterday about a dude with 5.5 saying "don't expect anything special" and his girl freaking out so this backs up said theory.
Bottom line it doesn't matter. The vaginal canal is like 4-5 inches and the g spot is just a couple inches in so you can do good no matter what you're packing. A lot of women don't like you poking their cervix. Also I have it on good authority some women prefer people without penises and they seem pretty satisfied too.
There's not as many people outside just....existing. I'm not that old but I remember just going outside and seeing people just not doing anything in particular everywhere, now it seems like everyone always has some place to rush to and no one is allowed to just exist in public places anymore. Maybe that also has something to do with my perspective shifting has I got older, but I still feel like it's true.
Also bugs. There are like NO fucking bugs anymore. Couple decades ago you could walk out and get sandblasted by a million different bugs and now everything just feels so fucking dead and sterile and depressed. It's like outside was replaced by a clinic and no one bothered to complain.
America has a reputation at being the "best" at everything always. That's why government is involved in sports in general, but as to the trans women topic it's because we're in a full on fascist takeover and they're number one on their list of people to "purify"
I 100% understand your wife. I'm not that bad, but it's a consequence of being told you have to be perfect or you failed growing up, at least for me. If something doesn't go right the first time I still get that mini freeze "error encountered on line 1 please reboot" that my parents unintentionally instilled in me.
I stay out of that fight because I don't know enough about the real statistics to comment on it. Which I feel like would drastically improve the situation if all these armchair "bIoLoGiCaL aDvAnTaGe" people would do the same.
If someone pirates a movie for home use its no big deal because yes. If someone pirates a movie and then opens a movie theatre and starts charging people to watch the movie that's an entirely different matter. AI is a business generating income, not a person skipping out on a $4 rental fee.
Am also atheist, I have an extreme...distaste for religion in general. There are some that I find easier to mesh with, very dependent on the person in particular. But I have some long married friends with vastly different religious views and they work out somehow.