It’s not about my ability this time or lack of it tho.

I am talking about just lurking and seeing other people responses and certain… rigidity. Responding in stiff manner, official speech, missing nuance, explaining something that didn’t need to be explained.

I just generally feel a lot of the times like someone who sees these notorious miscommunications so to say when just spectating various comments.

Best I can describe is that there are only limited responses “fitting” to a particular comment and I notoriously see certain off-vibe when someone responds with a comment that doesn’t fit.As if they didn’t see that their response feels grating because it doesn’t really fit properly