Skip Navigation

Beesbeesbees

@ Beebabe @lemmy.world

Posts
1
Comments
123
Joined
2 yr. ago

Interested in all things behavioral

  • What's the story in your field? Here's mine

    Jump

  • Alright here’s my attempt.

  • Deleted

    Permanently Deleted

    Jump

  • Not many people worth biting, even for a professional zombie.

  • Deleted

    Permanently Deleted

    Jump

  • Hi space Jesus

  • A clinic blames its closing on Trump’s Medicaid cuts. Patients don’t buy it.

    Jump

  • I think if they had good judgement, they wouldn’t be trump voters.

    Additionally many of them have a “take it on faith” behavior, because that’s been drilled into them by their churches and communities for decades. Thinking critically would have been punished. It’s hard behavior to unlearn. People were denying covid with their death rattles from covid.

  • Deleted

    Permanently Deleted

    Jump

  • Brains are the most attractive feature imo. Perhaps I am a zombie.

  • What's something you started doing arbitrarily that's been really positive for you?

    Jump

  • Read a journal article with coffee in the morning

  • You get new speakers or you start your music library from scratch. Which is the first song/album you play?

    Jump

  • Even god has a hell

  • What big budget movie had absolutely no buisness getting made?

    Jump

  • Ever after will be the #1 live action Cinderella for me. That said I didn’t mind the first one they came out with.

  • Nice Kitty

    Jump

  • No ticks at least :)

  • Bots everywhere or am I losing it?

    Jump

  • Ow my brain

  • Bots everywhere or am I losing it?

    Jump

  • Right? The same chain of “jokes” as top level comments. Thousands of thousand of comments that were very off topic or incredibly shallow perspectives. Copy/pasted comments up and down the chains. Then there were the obvious advertising disguised as post/conversations. Ick. I still maintain my account for the local/state subreddit and metalcore subreddit and that is it.

  • Bots everywhere or am I losing it?

    Jump

  • Not the vibe I’ve gotten. I do get that vibe over on Reddit. I think the quirky conversations and novel responses make me lean away from bot. However I’m not an expert.

  • Locked

    TIL of the Narcissist Smirk.

    Jump

  • The thing about narcissists is they are never as clever or subtle as they think they are. They get away with everything because their behaviors dysregulate decent people and make it easier to manipulate them. And while it’s obvious, in these little pleased gestures and exaggerated emotions, it still hurts to be manipulated and used. We seek closure to these events, they use that motivation to string the victims along. Terrible disorder.

  • me_irl

    Jump

  • Having a masters in behavioral science comes with additional agony these days.

  • I've been told that I "bottle things up and then explode". How do you not "explode"?

    Jump

  • Coping skills. It’s fine to get pissed and you may have a strong sense of justice and need to keep things even and explosions bring things back into equilibrium. A lot of “not exploding” on people can be addressed by what you do ahead of time, giving yourself escape routes, and learning new behaviors to replace explosive ones. These can be alternative activities that are incompatible or functionally just better ways to address situations.

    -Identify what happens before you explode. How do you feel, what are you thinking, is it the location, people, etc?

    -Time out from that moment until you come down from wanting to take people’s heads off.

    -Use strategies that you find to calm you down. Some people go for walks, use stress balls, fidgets, chew gum, color, play a game. I know this will vary wildly depending on your location and what’s acceptable. The point is to find some alternative for a few minutes or even during higher stress that you can do.

    -Increase activities that bring you joy. Again these don’t have to cost money and may vary depending on your interests.

  • NSFW Deleted

    Permanently Deleted

    Jump

  • I’m comfortable saying 0 at this point. I actually don’t really have many memories of childhood. We were just very poor. My parents spent what money there was on cheap can beer and something you need rolled up dollar bills for. We did do fun things, during the good times we had stuffed crust pizza from Pizza Hut and a video. I ended up being really short just from my diet of kool-aid and flint stones vitamins. I remember food things the most. We were spanked, but only occasionally, and this was the norm for the very rural area of Florida I grew up in. I remember mom’s ongoing grudge with the neighbors. She didn’t like them, apparently, because they gave us food when we played. It took many years to piece all these things together. What living family I am related to I am NC with, and have been for decades. I feel like this was textbook neglect exacerbated by poverty.

  • Let me pet the fucking dog

    Jump

  • To this day I can’t make myself do a joja run, despite my dislike of the guy who owns the store in SDV.

  • What makes us human?

    Jump

  • I’m over here debating “well technically there might be 3 pixels of crosswalk in the next square, but it might also be curb…” and “is that a bus off in the distance or just a suspiciously shaped gray rectangle…perhaps a bench?”

  • Damn she had AI write it

    Jump