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Alvaro

@ Alvaro @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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  • How do you deal with the reality of loneliness?

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  • I feel like you are taking everything I am saying to the extreme...

    The point is that you never know until you need them and they either fail you or not, and even someone that has been there for you everytime for years and you might consider to be 100% reliable, can surprise you and stop being reliable.

    It is a fact that no matter your situation, you are not guaranteed to have external support, but obviously for some people it is extremely unlikely to happen and for others it is more likely.

  • How do you deal with the reality of loneliness?

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  • That yoi can never be sure that it will happen, of course that doesn't mean that it won't

  • How do you deal with the reality of loneliness?

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  • Kind of a weird conclusion, but the answer is that I think I'm a very reliable person and I still don't think anyone can be relied on, not even me.

  • How do you deal with the reality of loneliness?

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  • I think you are assuming a lot of things.

    When I say someone to rely on, I mean someone who would show me that they want to be there for me when I'm going through tough times. I'm not even talking about necessarily being there for me, but knowing that there's someone who cares and wants to be there for you.

  • How do you deal with the reality of loneliness?

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  • I really like your perspective.

  • How do you deal with the reality of loneliness?

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  • Same here, and it really sucks. I see a lot of people being able to form new relationships relatively easily and maintain multiple relationships and I find myself for the most part incapable of maintaining more than one or two meaningful relationships, and when they end I usually end up being basically alone.

  • How do you deal with the reality of loneliness?

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  • This is generally my approach as well. I only find it problematic when I reach really tough times in my life and I find out that it is hard to just be with yourself.

  • How do you deal with the reality of loneliness?

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  • But think about it, you can never truly know, both for factors outside of their control and factors within their control. For example, they might get sick, they might die, they might get mental health issues that stop them from being a good friend. As well as factors within their control, they might decide to prioritize you less, they might decide that they just don't want to do it anymore. You can never really be sure, even your best friend, your partner, your parent, your sibling, all of them can one day decide that they don't want to be there for you, or that it's not right for them. Even if you never gave up on them and was always there for them, they might not want or feel obligated to, or even if they feel obligated to, they might not act on it.

  • If you woke up a billionaire tomorrow, what's the first thing you'd do?

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  • Good question, it would take some serious research but I would spread it over many different foundations and non profits.

    I also wouldn't donate it all at once, I will donate it in donations that are relative to the places' needs over several years.

  • If you woke up a billionaire tomorrow, what's the first thing you'd do?

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  • Donate 900 million, give to friends and family 90 million, invest 10 million

  • What budget friendly GPU for local AI workloads should I aim for?

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  • Rtx 3060 12gb has a pretty good value, a bit olde so might not be as good for a long term investment, but currently I think it supports all the modern frameworks

  • Netbird The GOAT

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  • Try Jetbird, it solved the connection issues for me, but drained the battery similarly for me

  • Netbird The GOAT

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  • Currently ditching netbird because the Android implementation kills the battery and it makes it unusable.

    I wish they would fix it, it's been an issue for quite some time

  • what would you do with an old dell server?

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  • Got woooshed, didn't see the /s

  • what would you do with an old dell server?

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  • This is wrong...

    Edit: anyway here is the real tree

  • If everybody in the world agreed to do so, what would you rename the twelve months?

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  • Month, monthh, monthhh, monthhhh, monthhhhh, monthhhhhh, monthhhhhhh, monthhhhhhhh, monthhhhhhhhh, monthhhhhhhhh, monthhhhhhhhhhh, monthhhhhhhhhh

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  • We are all just accessories to a butt. All fish are floating butts that evolved go have cool stuff around that butt.

    All animals are a butt with extra stuff to make the butt butt longer and create more butts

  • The 'crazy' running challenge pushing people to their limits [run 1 km day 1, 2 km day 2, etc., cumulatively]

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  • Maybe 0.1km on day 1 and 0.2 on day 2 etc

  • It is now better than ever to find alternatives to fossil fuels, do you have any plans?

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  • I fucking wish.

    I live in the suburbs where if you need to get to the city(which you do, often) your only option is a highway with no sidewalk or bike lanes. Public Transit is a fucking joke that is also unreasonably priced.

    I looked to buy an ev, but where I live EVs are still expensive and the second hand market is small, so I just couldn't find anything even near my price range.

    At some point I decided that it is fucked up to have a 1000 kg piece of metal carrying a 70kg human ,as I drive alone 99% of the time. I decided to switch to a motorcycle for the environment and convenience. The motorcycle ev market is even less developed so literally nothing that I could find.

    Honestly, the whole idea that we should all own cars is fucked up and unreasonable. Public transit + short range small vehicles(scooters, ebikes, etc) should be the default.